Society is Cruel

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Why is it that people become horrible in groups? They can be okay individually but when they're with their friends they change.I find this happens especially with men my own age.They won't speak to me in public.It makes me miserable.I find it hard to deal with the pain of being outcast.Knowing other people are accepted and I'm not.The way I deal with it is by restricting what I eat.
It annoys me the way pro ana websites are criticised by people in society and the media.When it's society and the media which triggers eating disorders with their fascist ideas.I'm tired of being treated like mad,ugly scum.The people who cause this misery are the scum.I'm tired of people like Simon Cowell sneering at people who don't look a certain way like Susan Boyle and only employing people he fancies.He has popular shows and he's putting out these fascist messages that influence people.
I'm sick and tired of it.It's like I've been left to rot.It doesn't matter how good I am with people.They won't even acknowledge me in public.They don't want their stupid friends to think they fancy me and I hate them and their shallow minded vile friends.In this society it is more acceptable to be horrible than mentally ill or ugly even if you are a good person.
I sometimes go on pro ana sites as I find it distracts from the misery this cruel society causes me.Having said that I don't recommend restricting food or following all the tips on these sites as it could be dangerous.I don't follow everything on them.I just wanted to point out how hypocritical society is.

Totally hypocritical, I agree with you. I can't stand Cowell, he's so very unpleasant. And I hate reality tv. I think it causes a great deal of dissatisfaction with life, especially young impressionable people.

Did you read any of the reports lately that speculate that in many cases, anorexia and other eating disorders may actually be a side effect of undiagnosed Aspergers? Of course girls are under diagnosed for Aspergers anyway, as too many doctors don't know how different it is in girls from how it presents in boys. I can't quite remember the details, but I do wonder if some girls might figure out a way to step back from anorexia if they had knew they were Aspies. If they are being treated as if there's some undiscovered deep down traumatic reason for their anorexia and they find out that there is also a solid neurological reason, it might help them. I don't know if I'm being very clear!

Society is cruel because human beings are cruel.

We homo sapiens are completely lost as a species and I don't think that's ever going to improve. Our whole existence is nothing more than a freak of nature. Not only do we drag ourselves down but almost every other species as well. Not to mention our destructive influence on nature in general. Mankind is the biggest natural disaster this planet has ever known. I am fully aware of the fact that I am a human being as well and therefore no better than others.

That is why I believe there are people who are cosidered to be 'different' - those who are bent on peace, social equality, and dismantling of the current cheap and frivolous social/economic classes this world loves placing everyone into, really need to be more open about their feelings/beliefs and help to teach the world a new way of thinking and living. Sure it may take many more generations - or it may not happen till it becomes the majority who are ready to rise in vibrational energy rather than simply a small few who are. Those who are closer to being ready for enlightenment (light in the mind) know that there is absolutely no value to be placed in social or economic labels or classes. they know that war, brutality, and revenge are karmic train wrecks and are not things to be embraced but to be shed from our minds and from our soul.

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I would avoid hanging around people who treat you ok individually but ignore or even insult you when with other friends or people...sorry if I misunderstand but is this a consistent thing with the same people? or something you've consistently experienced regardless of who you are around? Also the problem I have with pro-ana websites is eating disorders are dangerous as is, from what I understand those sites sort of encourage it as something that is ok, and might encourage people not to get help for it and suffer very bad health consequences due to malnourishment....can't say I understand how it is to have such a disorder, and I certainly would see no issue with people with it trying to support each other or give harm reduction tips and share experiences so would take no issue with a website based on that.