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FeralRobot
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11 May 2014, 4:28 pm

I am quite young and, as such, still questioning my sexuality. I find I am more attracted to women than men, but often am attracted to men as well, and find both arousing (although women more so than men). I would also consider a romantic relationship with a member of either gender. I am quite masculine- "macho", even - but am as comfortable interacting with one gender as the other. I usually find that I think about women sexually rather than men, but, as I have mentioned above, am aroused by both.
So what do you think?


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11 May 2014, 4:45 pm

most folks aren't strictly heterosexual or homosexual. it's a spectrum. you decide where you fit on it.



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11 May 2014, 7:49 pm

There was a singer I listened to growing up; John Prine. The lyrics in one of his songs said "you are what you are and you ain't what you ain't"
The point is that you are a unique individual and whatever you do is right for you.



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11 May 2014, 11:19 pm

Maybe bi.

Ever heard the phrase "There's a little bi in every guy,"? There's some truth to that, IMO, as I bet most-all guys can at least tell when they're looking at a good looking guy, even if they wouldn't admit it to others.

Regardless, whatever your sexual orientation, it is what it is and you're attracted to what you're attracted to & interested in sex with the people you're interested in sex with and no name or label is going to completely define it or you. Just roll with however you feel & accept it as it is and however it changes, or doesn't change, over time. You'll be a lot happier that way.


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15 May 2014, 6:16 am

Sure. Not everyone who is bisexual is equally attracted to women and men.



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17 May 2014, 2:40 pm

I'm Bisexual. I think everyone is, if you remove stigma from sexuality in society I think you would see way more variants of it


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