At least when I'm talking to an AS "expert" I can relax about coming off as awkward, and even better, I can count on the fact that they are not leaving too much to be inferred. And if they are, I can ask them to expand on the topic, which oftentimes will get them even more into the conversation (or monologue as it may turn out by now).
KingdomOfRats wrote:
its good to have people being able to understand from their own experience,instead of just knowing everything from a text book, they dont quite get it like someone whose living it.
I know quite a few experts who are without a doubt diagnosable, but don't see it in themselves. Just go to a highly reputable ASD research department and you'll encounter as many on the team as participants in the building at any given moment. That being said, whether or not their are actively drawing on their experience for understanding is preferable to them just thinking they are just naturally good at what they do (and they likely are) is probably of little importance in most cases. However, I have personal experience enlightening one such expert about just how much she had in common with the participants she was studying. One thing led to another... now we're engaged.