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31 May 2014, 2:13 pm

I was wondering if any if you are attracted to people who are feminine.



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31 May 2014, 2:22 pm

A bit, but not overly. I'm not attracted to extremely feminine guys, nor am I attracted to very masculine guys. My preference lies somewhere more in the middle.


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31 May 2014, 2:31 pm

It depends on the girl or guy (or other) in question. If they're feminine to the extreme that they don't have any overlapping interests then that could be a problem. Also a problem is that I cannot kiss people who have make-up on because it feels awful to me. I have been attracted to feminine men, women and others. But typically my attraction is for masculine people (my favourite body type is bears, I really like hairy people, shaved people creep me out).



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31 May 2014, 2:54 pm

Somewhat.

My boyfriend could be called feminine in some ways, since he's very into cooking, sensitive to animals, and gentle, but other stereotypically feminine associations don't appeal to me.

Curves are more feminine. I like curves and prefer them to things like broad shoulders and square or angular features, which are seen as more masculine.



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31 May 2014, 3:24 pm

Not at all, but that is due to holding an atypical view of femininity.



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01 Jun 2014, 12:58 am

I tend to like it in others, yeah. Specifically in terms of appearance.

Though, sometimes I do wonder if the reason why I like it in others is because it makes them similar to myself. I'm male, but physically alot of people seem to find me to be girlish or androgynous.



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01 Jun 2014, 8:56 am

I would say I am attracted to people like that, but I am not at all compatible with people who are very feminine. The interactions we have just don't really work. I also get slightly jealous of them; this is not good, I know. I still feel like I 'should' be more feminine myself, and I still get jealous of people for whom femininity comes naturally - but that's how it is. I don't know what to do about that.


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01 Jun 2014, 12:43 pm

masculine, feminine, androgynous are all attractive to me.

But it is not common for me to not find someone physically attractive.



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23 Jun 2014, 3:26 am

I'm a female and I tend to be attracted to femininity. Not all the time, but usually.


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25 Jun 2014, 7:40 am

I wouldn't want to be intimate with a masculine woman.



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25 Jun 2014, 4:42 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I wouldn't want to be intimate with a masculine woman.


How do you define that?

I think I'm a bit masculine (and some other people do as well) but my partner doesn't. It's very subjective.


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25 Jun 2014, 10:54 pm

Not particularly, but I do prefer women. Not only is the female body more attractive, but they've always been nicer to me, even offering to help me clean up a drink I spilled while some strange older man was staring at me in the cafe and making me nervous.