are you well liked

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even though I never been sexually or romantic popular
with the ladies.I've always been Liked.I never(or rarely)
get treated like crap.I can get myself ''over''being a
lower beta male.

so,any other ASD'ers that's not romantic or sexually popular
that are respected by people.

I don't have to sleep with or dates tons of Girls,to get respect.
Alot of people like and respect me.

I think I do okay.

Not sure if I am or not.

Im not popular with the ladies but Im not hated either.
Im just a lower beta male that acts like an ''alpha''
and sometimes an ''alpha douche'',however
if I acted like a depressed or cranky lower beta male.
I would probaly have alot less ''love''from the ladies.

being a wwe fan for 23 years,really help me with ladies.

Some people do, but I find it really hard to like most people because I have strong distaste in maintaining acquaintances or 'shallow' friends. I have always been a person that can only really dedicate to 2-3 people. This is true even on forums, where I will only PM 2-3 people at any one time, based almost entirely on my liking of them in the first place.

If I am to make another close friend, usually I have to drop one of the others. Usually it depends on how committed they are to me. If I am a person they talk to because they can't talk to someone else in real life, then I tend to not want to be friends because it isn't a 'priority' friendship. If I PM people on forums, I usually stop because that person changes their attitude, to the point where it is no longer what I liked about them.

It sounds really stingy, and it might be, but it is always redeemable. If I stopped being friends with a close friend, but then they made me feel as if the 'priority' value of the friendship was reinstated, then I instantly love them again. It is highly black and white - all or none.

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Unapologetically, Norny.
-chronically drunk

I believe billiscool is very likable.

I think he is right about depressed or cranky lower beta males not getting a lot of love from the ladies. That is probably true of depressed or cranky higher beta males, too. Interesting thought about depressed or cranky being unacceptable unless it is an alpha male. I wonder if that is true of females.

I'm pretty well liked.

The ladies actually like me very much, unfortunately I am very shy and nervous.

I know for sure that some people think I'm charming (because they said so themselves). But I don't know if I can say the same for everyone acquainted with me.

I'm not sure if I'm well liked these days, or not.

I'm pretty well-liked, but no one really respects me.

I'm well liked by a lot of the ladies and they flirt with me a lot... I'm told I'm very attractive. But I am too shy and struggle with intimacy to go on dates and take things further... I've only had 2 girlfriends in me 24 years. I want a girl in my life but it's such a struggle socially for me, I can fake it but only for so long.

I'm also told I'm very charming and nice by customers.

remember this is for ASD'ers who are not romantic
or sexual ''popular''(15 or more romantic,sexual,or physical(kissing)
partner) but are well liked or respect by people

I'm surprised how many people on here say they're well liked. Either you're all delusional, or the reason people pretty universally dislike me no matter what I do isn't my autism.

I'm not liked. The only people who ever like me are children under age 8, close family, and guys (or lesbians) who think I'm hot.

Nobody likes me at all.