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Hello all,


I am having some problems right now in my life. Nothing is going right, both of my parents don't give a s**t about me and I am on my own, completely lost. My dad's family also harrassed me. I have no gf, no friends, and no talents. I do have a job but it's going to eventually lead to a dead end, and I do have hobbies but unfortunately those are going to lead to dead ends too. I want to get to know more peopl but my mom isn't willing to let me leave the house to try to meet new people and I'm being prevented from doing so. I have not much going for me right now except for my job, which I hate but if I quit I'll get kicked out of my house. There are no opportunities to move out of my home until next year and I can't wait that long, and I am feeling downright ill everyday, I cant get out of bed, doing a simple task is like downright impossible, and I want to die, I need some answers, etc. I hate the fact that people talk down to me also when I'm doing nothing wrong. Another problem is I think I'm being used as a slave to work in my house because my moms not even happy after I've done all the work, and she calls me out for my faults and mistakes constantly. Getting a gf is hard too because I can't go out, however there is a girl I like at work, but sad to say she has a bf who works at the same place I work and I really want to be friends with her but she isn't acknowledging it and it's making me feel upset. Bottom line is I'm totally lost with no one and basically nothing and need some advice. Thanks.

You're profile says you are 22...how can your mom not let you leave the house? Not really up to her at your age whether you go meet people or not.

does she have guardianship? you should contact a social worker and see if they can help you advocate for yourself

Can we swap lives please. There is always someone worse off than you, in this case it is me, got to feel sorry for the guy who is worse off than me though. Chin up, you're only young, you have plenty of time to get thoroughly shafted and mess up so catastrophically that, well,, I am still awaiting the consequences so lets just leave it at that.

also get in contact with your states vocational rehab chances are they will be able to help you find another job and its easier to find a job when you are already working one, its what im doing my job is a lot of really hard work and in the winter its not bad but when its humid and hot I just want to no come in. im trying for a government job of some kind

Hey Duck,

Remember what we discussed? I know it wouldn't be the best situation--but maybe you could live with your father, so he could do the thing you mentioned. You are a 22 year old adult. You are not Cinderella. Get out of your situation!

Hi I am NT but come on here time to time to try to understand someone with Aspergers. I have some harsh dose of reality for you young man. I am 32 and life sucks. I have to live with my brother because I can't get or keep a decent job. I have enough debt to consider declaring bankruptcy. I have a few friends but it has taken years to get them.

I think the advice I should give you is find a reason to get out of bed everyday. For some people they believe in God or A God and that gives them purpose. Some its family. Some its because they think something good is coming down the road. For me personally I am a workout freak. I get out of bed literally because I want to go workout. At first.. and for a long time.. it was a chore. I lift weights and do cardio every day. The deeper and longer I got into it, I got more and more compliments (I receive compliments everyday.. sometimes they are just pick me ups from gym buddies, sometimes they are from perfect strangers). The gym thing that is my thing. Maybe yours is some day you want to work with animals in a zoo or as a park ranger, I dunno the choices are endless. I know other people their reason for getting out of bed is literally their career and to pay mortgage on their home. That sounds terrible but to them that is happiness. Happiness is really what you make it.

Women you mentioned some girl and she has a boyfriend. Unfortunately with women we are the man we must hit on them and pursue them and this one is taken. My advice is forget her and go hit on as many women as you can. Don't be afraid to start with the less attractive ones. I have no clue what you look like but I can tell you men scale from 1-10 in the attractiveness and women definitely scale from 1-10 in attractiveness. Don't assume you are a 10 or can attract a 10. Be realistic. If you want to do better you can lift weights or listen to self help cds on how to socialize.

Don't ever let anything in this world steal your happiness or how you feel inside about yourself. You are perfect the way you are. You have a purpose in this life. You might not know what that is now but it will come to you. Every night before bed think about the things you do have even if its just a pillow to lay your head on and food in your stomach. Many people don't have those things.

Hi I am NT but come on here time to time to try to understand someone with Aspergers. I have some harsh dose of reality for you young man. I am 32 and life sucks. I have to live with my brother because I can't get or keep a decent job. I have enough debt to consider declaring bankruptcy. I have a few friends but it has taken years to get them.

I think the advice I should give you is find a reason to get out of bed everyday. For some people they believe in God or A God and that gives them purpose. Some its family. Some its because they think something good is coming down the road. For me personally I am a workout freak. I get out of bed literally because I want to go workout. At first.. and for a long time.. it was a chore. I lift weights and do cardio every day. The deeper and longer I got into it, I got more and more compliments (I receive compliments everyday.. sometimes they are just pick me ups from gym buddies, sometimes they are from perfect strangers). The gym thing that is my thing. Maybe yours is some day you want to work with animals in a zoo or as a park ranger, I dunno the choices are endless. I know other people their reason for getting out of bed is literally their career and to pay mortgage on their home. That sounds terrible but to them that is happiness. Happiness is really what you make it.

Women you mentioned some girl and she has a boyfriend. Unfortunately with women we are the man we must hit on them and pursue them and this one is taken. My advice is forget her and go hit on as many women as you can. Don't be afraid to start with the less attractive ones. I have no clue what you look like but I can tell you men scale from 1-10 in the attractiveness and women definitely scale from 1-10 in attractiveness. Don't assume you are a 10 or can attract a 10. Be realistic. If you want to do better you can lift weights or listen to self help cds on how to socialize.

Don't ever let anything in this world steal your happiness or how you feel inside about yourself. You are perfect the way you are. You have a purpose in this life. You might not know what that is now but it will come to you. Every night before bed think about the things you do have even if its just a pillow to lay your head on and food in your stomach. Many people don't have those things.

It actually sounds like you're suffering from depression. Perhaps you should see a counselor. It may not help your current situation but it might make you feel better and thus better able to handle the situation.