Can I really get a "hot" girl?

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In my future, I am worried that I won't get a "hot" girl. I see its only skin deep, but a few of my peers have girls that I'd consider more attractive than average. It also is like there are only a few elite girls who are like that.

What do you think?

Are you a really "hot" guy?

1. Why does it matter to you so much?
2. What do you have to offer a hot girl?

Am I a hot guy? Yes, kind of, but Sometimes the definition can be relative. I'm starting going to the gym (still just for myself though), and I was told I had a handsome face. I have a picture in my room of myself giving a sexy smile.

It all depends on the answer to this.

It's the same as everything else one might try: if you think you cannot, you'll be right.

Don't judge yourself by the same standards you have for women.
Men and women are different in nearly every way, and even opposite in very many ways.

It is important to everyone to have a partner that is attractive in a way that is important to them.

How dare you want a woman, that's in good shape and takes care of herself. In all seriousness, just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean she's not date-able, or stuck up. I have met some pretty nice attractive women, whom I became friends with. I have also met some really stuck up women who are well, well, well, below average. The main issue with attractive women is finding an attractive woman that is single. Remember just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean shes not nice, or that she's stuck up. That's just a huge stereotype, in fact I have found attractive women to be nicer on average, than unattractive women.

People have different standards of what is hot. Maybe some girls would consider you ugly but then there will be an attractive girl who thinks you are the sexiest man alive.

Agreed and quite honestly I am tired of the whole "weight shouldn't matter" debate and 'It's whats on the inside that counts." Yes a good personality is obviously important, more important than looks; however there is no excuse for someone being fat unless they have health issues. I myself have a bit of a gut, but I am getting rid of that. I have heard women say things such as "I'm a big girl, I like to eat sorry." but than expect the guy to feel likes an as*hole if he isn't attracted to big women. It is just ridiculous and it's not jsut men who are attracted to people in shape, even on this forum in the thread "what are you looking for in a man?", there were women who posted things such as "He needs to be tall." I'd like to point out, if you are over weight and don't care, that's different. What I don't like is people trying to make other people feel bad, because they specifically want someone who is attractive, or people who are over weight without health problems, that look for sympathy.

Yep, some women who are a bit more or less overweight can still be attractive.

Can't really answer your question without knowing what you look like now can we? Post your pic so we can evaluate if you're hot-girl worthy or not.

By the way Cafeaulait, I wasn't attacking you. I was just stating my opinion on the matter and agreeing with what 1401b said.

Also, this may be just me, but I want to know what other guys think. It seems the closer you are to Hollywood, the more attractive I find the woman. Am I somehow wrong? I know there must be girls I find very attractive anywhere, but in Hollywood it just seems more normal I guess. I know I'll never get to be with a female star, singer, model or actress though.

you sound very young. please tell me you are a preteen/teenager who still hasn't figured out much about the real world, and that's why you sound as credulous and immature as you do. if you are an adult and think this way then i would say you still have a lot of growing up to do. as ASD is a developmental disorder, i'm trying to give you the benefit of the doubt that these things you're expressing are simply due to naiveté and inexperience.