The internet has been extremely kind to me for these purposes.
Dating sites, hookup sites/apps, personal ads, responding to personal ads via email.
Chatting, emailing, texting etc then meeting in real life.
Even though I live in the suburbs of the gayest city in the entire country (we have the highest lgbt population in Canada) I have very little interest in the gay district or the gay scene or gay bats/night clubs.
Yet I have managed to meet many-a-homo. It hasn't been very difficult. Like I said, the internet has been extremely kind to me for these purposes. Learn to utilize it & our Aspie ability to communicate much better via text than other mediums.
I suppose it doesn't hurt that there are a LOT of gay guys around these parts to interact with online in the first place vs. being in a small town somewhere with a tiny gay population. Even those in small towns could get to know others online. Maybe try getting to know someone from the nearest major city? Or make plans to get out of hickville and move to a major urban centre that's loaded with gay people.
Now, how to meet someone who's ideal relationship material? lol, haven't nailed that one yet! But I'll keep working on it (and myself) until I do.
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for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.