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I don't have any recent pictures
so

Aug 2014
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older one but only one without beard which if I get job I'll likely have to shave daily.
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Last edited by sly279 on 20 Nov 2014, 6:39 pm, edited 1 time in total.

You've gotta lose the weight, also a mangled t-shirt is a good way to look like a basement-dweller, you can get yourself to a solid 8 if you can lose the weight and fluff yourself up some more.

But I don't consider you at all ugly.

What's wrong with weight?

Meh?Losing weight is a health thing, not an ugly thing. It's all about how you wear it.

I've known ugly guys who couldn't beat the girls off of them with a stick. These are the kinds of guys who send PUAs crying home to their mommies. They make up for looks through being these funny, Jabba the Hut gangster personalities while still being all-around great guys.

Losing weight is not difficult. Not pleasant, but not difficult, either. Just stop eating. Hang in there for a good two weeks and your appetite will go away. Drink plenty water. I wouldn't go more than 6 weeks. Resume eating normal food, but do NOT add salt, and keep your 3 meals/day to between 4 and 8 ounces. After about two weeks you can do pretty much whatever you want, BUT do keep in mind your body will want to put all the weight back on. This is a good opportunity to relearn good eating habits and start getting exercise. Personally, I monitor my weight twice a day, and it's pretty typical for me to gain about 8 lb. in water weight. Don't be surprised if you gain about 10 lb. in a few months, and don't worry about 10 lb., either. Worry if you gain more than that. Weight and diet, for those who have weight issues, will be a lifelong struggle.

And that's the hard part: Keeping the weight off. I highly recommend daily intermittent fasting, i.e. only taking meals within a narrow window. I prefer only eating during daylight. I do a total fast every from Friday to Saturday with some exceptions, and I eat a good meal on Saturday night.

Fasting isn't for everyone, and most people will advise you to see a doctor regularly if this is something you decide to do.

Meh?Losing weight is a health thing, not an ugly thing. It's all about how you wear it.

I've known ugly guys who couldn't beat the girls off of them with a stick. These are the kinds of guys who send PUAs crying home to their mommies. They make up for looks through being these funny, Jabba the Hut gangster personalities while still being all-around great guys.

Losing weight is not difficult. Not pleasant, but not difficult, either. Just stop eating. Hang in there for a good two weeks and your appetite will go away. Drink plenty water. I wouldn't go more than 6 weeks. Resume eating normal food, but do NOT add salt, and keep your 3 meals/day to between 4 and 8 ounces. After about two weeks you can do pretty much whatever you want, BUT do keep in mind your body will want to put all the weight back on. This is a good opportunity to relearn good eating habits and start getting exercise. Personally, I monitor my weight twice a day, and it's pretty typical for me to gain about 8 lb. in water weight. Don't be surprised if you gain about 10 lb. in a few months, and don't worry about 10 lb., either. Worry if you gain more than that. Weight and diet, for those who have weight issues, will be a lifelong struggle.

And that's the hard part: Keeping the weight off. I highly recommend daily intermittent fasting, i.e. only taking meals within a narrow window. I prefer only eating during daylight. I do a total fast every from Friday to Saturday with some exceptions, and I eat a good meal on Saturday night.

Fasting isn't for everyone, and most people will advise you to see a doctor regularly if this is something you decide to do.

I don't really feel sorry for your complaining. I bet there are plenty of girls that would date you but you'd think they are ugly or unattractive.

And I agree: lose the weight.

Didn't bother looking, but if you're 26 years old asking people if you're ugly/asking for pity, you've got a long, long road ahead of you.

No, I think he would date anyone even if she's bald and teeth-less.

A large % of people don't like weight, so if you wanna increase your chances of girls finding you attractive then you should lose weight.
I am only talking probability-wise.

Boo with that wisdom once again.

LOL @ women who say that if a dude can't find a date, it must be because he's picky. Normally, the least picky ones are the ones who can't find dates for whatever reason...

And lose WHAT weight? Guy's not even that big. Plus, despite what people say, women like big dudes better than skinny/average dudes.

Weight is really not an issue for some, many chubby guys and girls find mates.

For me self maintenance is what is very important.

I see you like to have a beard, if you grew it and your hair out a bit and went to a classic barber to get a nice beard trim to shape it and a nice classic cut it would look very nice. This is what my husband does and many men do. I personally find it to be very attractive.

Something like this would be better if you are choosing to go with a beard:




Also learning how to dress can make a world of difference, not only for partners but in everyday life in general.

You don't have to have a lot of money, you just need to learn how to recreate looks, you can do this at your local good will.

Tumblr is a great place to learn about mens fashion:

http://mensfashion.tumblr.com

And the most important of all is hygiene, nobody and I mean nobody will ever want to be with you if you do not clean yourself and use products like deodorant.

That is my advice. I have personally dated larger men and thin men and these were the exterior things I was attracted to.

Men are ugly disgusting creatures. I don't see how a woman could possibly see a man as good looking. If I was a woman, I would be a lesbian. I cannot put a scale on how ugly men are. Women are beautiful

You're VERY cute like a big teddy bear

Do Muslimas mind a chubby guy?