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26 Nov 2014, 12:49 am

I always had trouble making friends cuz of my Asperger, I thought it was my fault & something was wrong with me. I have online friends, but I can lose friends too. Some of them stick around. Is anyone wanting a new friend?



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26 Nov 2014, 7:35 am

Hello Kitty, Welcome to Wrongplanet!! :)

I read your other posts, its sad that you have trouble talking to family members due to aspergers issues, I am same way, I get along better with like-minded individuals and autistic/aspergers people.

what are things your interested in, have you found anyone that shares the same interest you have as well???

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26 Nov 2014, 11:26 am

Same feelings, actually I feel it's more to make online friends with asperger than anything else. Anyway I'm here o/



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26 Nov 2014, 4:40 pm

I find it hard to make friends too. I only have a few. It's hard to have conversations with people IMO.



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26 Nov 2014, 4:51 pm

ive never had any friends in my life and it can get lonely, but on the plus side i can focus on my own interests lol



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27 Nov 2014, 12:22 am

I've always had a hard time making friends & never had a close relationship with my parents. Rite now I don't really have any friends offline or online I talk to about stuff besides my girlfriend. Your welcome to PM me if you'd like an online friend.


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27 Nov 2014, 5:24 pm

bguimaraes wrote:
Same feelings, actually I feel it's more to make online friends with asperger than anything else. Anyway I'm here o/



I been trying to make friends online since I got the internet, cuz I'm so lonely. I want to talk to ppl alot of the time but I can't open my mouth. I feel so much better talking online, it's easier for me & I can have trouble saying the right words.



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27 Nov 2014, 5:35 pm

nick007 wrote:
I've always had a hard time making friends & never had a close relationship with my parents. Rite now I don't really have any friends offline or online I talk to about stuff besides my girlfriend. Your welcome to PM me if you'd like an online friend.




Isn't your girlfriend your friend too?

I had a close relationship with my mom, I lived with my mom for 37 years, I wasn't mentally ready to move out.



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27 Nov 2014, 5:43 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I've always had a hard time making friends & never had a close relationship with my parents. Rite now I don't really have any friends offline or online I talk to about stuff besides my girlfriend. Your welcome to PM me if you'd like an online friend.




Isn't your girlfriend your friend too?

I had a close relationship with my mom, I lived with my mom for 37 years, I wasn't mentally ready to move out.
She's my best friend & I talk to her about lots of stuff but I don't really have anyone else I can talk to & get a different perspective or anything.
I didn't move out of my parents till I moved in with her when I was about 30


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27 Nov 2014, 5:54 pm

doordoctor wrote:
Hello Kitty, Welcome to Wrongplanet!! :)

I read your other posts, its sad that you have trouble talking to family members due to aspergers issues, I am same way, I get along better with like-minded individuals and autistic/aspergers people.

what are things your interested in, have you found anyone that shares the same interest you have as well???

-Jess


I use to go to alot of family events, not anymore, I go to 1 or 2 a year, I really stop liking Thanksgiving. Another thing about my family, they cause Tooooooo Much Drama!! They need a reality show. LOL

I get along better with individual ppl too. I love doing art (I do cartoons & portraits) but I haven't done art in 2 years. I love to dance, sing & write poems.



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29 Nov 2014, 6:39 pm

...Me :( .