Do you have a strong or weak personality??

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Do you have a strong or weak personality??
Strong personality 45%  45%  [ 14 ]
Weak personality 32%  32%  [ 10 ]
Neither (normal) 23%  23%  [ 7 ]
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Zajie
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07 Dec 2014, 11:49 pm

My father was scolding me and he said i have a weak personality because I'm attached to my mother but I never thought that would mean a weak personality, because some of my friends used to tell me my personality was strong but I think its neither strong or weak because I have weak things and strong things in my personality.
Is your personality weak or strong???



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08 Dec 2014, 12:23 am

I would say very weak.



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08 Dec 2014, 1:19 am

Weak here.



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08 Dec 2014, 1:27 am

strong


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08 Dec 2014, 2:34 am

If you think you have a weak or a strong or a normal personality what makes you think that??? I think mine normal/neither for those reasons: weak traits in my personality are that I would never be sure of something unless its confirmed by someone else, I like it when someone tells me I have similar things with someone I admire, I don't have confidence in myself most of the time, my eye contact with others isn't very good at times and with certain people and I'm a little bit anxious sometimes in certain places with certain people. Strong traits are: I stick to what I believe and do what I think is right, I don't care what others would think of me, I argue with others so much when I need to lol, I approach people when I want to like most of my friends I approached them at first to befriend them, I sometimes have very good eye contact, I'm very calm(not feeling anxious) at times, I'm very confident sometimes.
Those are the reasons of why I think I'm neither. :nerdy:



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08 Dec 2014, 2:44 am

I'm told I have a strong personality.

I tend to be the dominant personality in a group.
Though this might be due to my ability to get things done and knowing what should be done.

I do stand up for others and myself, refusing to take crap (for the most part).
I generally do the responsible and honest thing, even offering to pay for something after being told I don't need to do so.
I am also quite the caring type.

Funny I've been told I don't have an Aspies personality by those who work with us.


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08 Dec 2014, 3:12 am

What even is a strong or weak personality? I just have a personality.


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08 Dec 2014, 3:47 am

Ganondox wrote:
What even is a strong or weak personality? I just have a personality.


A strong typically goes hand and hand with big personalities, though not mutually exclusive.

Strong personality:

*Unable to be hidden from others, no matter how much you try to do it
*It has a sizable effect on each part of your life
*Generally comes with dynamism (weak tend to be less dynamic in life)
*Makes it easier for you to initiate with others
*It makes you stand out and on your own (in contrast people with weak personalities tend to conform, give into peer pressure, fit better into groups, and form co-dependencies with others)
*Makes you more influential in relationships, groups, and other activities with other people (we don't mesh well with others)
*People with strong personalities have an easier time being emotionally and physically independent from others
*People with strong personalities tend to lead, while weak personalities tend to be followers.


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08 Dec 2014, 6:18 am

xenocity wrote:

I do stand up for others and myself, refusing to take crap (for the most part).
I generally do the responsible and honest thing, even offering to pay for something after being told I don't need to do so.
I am also quite the caring type.

Funny I've been told I don't have an Aspies personality by those who work with us.

I have those traits too :mrgreen:
People don't know about me being autistic so they never say something regarding it



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08 Dec 2014, 6:24 am

Zajie wrote:
xenocity wrote:

I do stand up for others and myself, refusing to take crap (for the most part).
I generally do the responsible and honest thing, even offering to pay for something after being told I don't need to do so.
I am also quite the caring type.

Funny I've been told I don't have an Aspies personality by those who work with us.

I have those traits too :mrgreen:
People don't know about me being autistic so they never say something regarding it

People find me to be socially awkward and off.
Though I have physical disability that impacts my motor skills and how I walk (and other things I do with my legs).


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08 Dec 2014, 6:29 am

Ganondox wrote:
What even is a strong or weak personality? I just have a personality.

I don't get it either.



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08 Dec 2014, 8:19 am

Mine varies between weak and strong depending on how I feel.


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08 Dec 2014, 8:33 am

I've been told that I'm strong-willed, but I've also been told that I'm too much of a doormat. Aren't these two things kind of diametrically opposed?



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08 Dec 2014, 9:10 am

xenocity wrote:
Zajie wrote:
xenocity wrote:

I do stand up for others and myself, refusing to take crap (for the most part).
I generally do the responsible and honest thing, even offering to pay for something after being told I don't need to do so.
I am also quite the caring type.

Funny I've been told I don't have an Aspies personality by those who work with us.

I have those traits too :mrgreen:
People don't know about me being autistic so they never say something regarding it

People find me to be socially awkward and off.
Though I have physical disability that impacts my motor skills and how I walk (and other things I do with my legs).

I don't walk well too; I find it hard to walk with a straight posture since if I straighten my spine or shoulders it hurts and tires me so I sometimes don't.

Humanaut wrote:
Ganondox wrote:
What even is a strong or weak personality? I just have a personality.

I don't get it either.

I don't know how to explain it very well its kinda complicated :p there are things I didn't know about this topic until people replied and all xD

Norny wrote:
Mine varies between weak and strong depending on how I feel.

Mine is strong in some situations and in other situations it's weak


mr_bigmouth_502 wrote:
I've been told that I'm strong-willed, but I've also been told that I'm too much of a doormat. Aren't these two things kind of diametrically opposed?


Yes they're, me too I've been told that I was so weak sometimes and with certain people, I remember as a kid my personality used to be very weak.



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08 Dec 2014, 9:40 am

I am what they call "obdurate."



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08 Dec 2014, 9:42 am

I could be obdurate at times.

However, most of the time, I feel like I, at least, make an attempt to be accommodating.

There are times when my personality is "strong." Other times, it is "weak."

I would say, over all, that I'm "average."