Talking about Sex

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How comfortable are you when it comes to the idea of talking about sex? I know this is a family site, so I will keep this neat.

I looked on YouTube and discovered that when it comes to things, we live by extremes, which mean we are very emotional or more mentally charged. Thus us supposedly not an exception with sex.

I found sex for Aspies can range from asexual to hypersexual. Some don't feel comfortable talking while others can't really clam up about it. So, I am curious of your thoughts on it all.

i'm a fairly reserved person in general, but if i'm close enough to discuss emotional things with you, i can discuss sex with you. also, i have a medical background, so i am comfortable giving facts about sex to anyone.

I feel gross talking about it in all honesty. I realize it's a natural part of life, but there is some mechanism in my brain that puts it in the "bad thoughts" category.

Maybe because I'm inexperienced is the reason or something.

To be honest, I'd like to talk about sex more often.

It's difficult though, because most people are too embarrassed to be sensible about it all. And when they do talk, what you often get is inneundo, boasting and euphemisms.

I'm fairly comfortable talking about sex. The only reason I don't talk about it is concern for the comfort of others.

Depends on the environment. In those I'm unsure I probably wouldn't raise it at all. In a "safe" environment it's something I'd be delighted to talk about.


This applies to many other things as well. As I've observered on "do you like to hug" type threads.
IME lack of social skills is likely to be a big problem to "hypersexuals".

I am hypersexual, emotional, passionate and kinky when it comes to sex and intimacy. In actual fact...I crave it. I long for something so deep and emotional and caring.

I'm the type that likes to "do it" better than talking about it.

I'm not really squeamish--but I just prefer actions over words within the realm of sex.

I'm basically asexual, but sex is still an interesting topic to me and I'm perfectly fine with talking about it. Nothing really makes me squeamish as far as conversational topics go.

This.

Although I'm open to talking about it somewhat. i.e. about health/clinical things. I suppose I'd be more open to talking about sexual acts and things via text online vs. in person. In person I've almost never ever spoken about any of these things. I'm basically one who keeps his private life private. I don't "kiss and tell," or brag to friends about personal things of that nature. There are a couple friends I'd discuss some aspects of my sex life with when and if appropriate, but otherwise nah, I'm silent about it.

I love sex I am very hypersexual sometimes i cannot get enough of it!

My sex drive is strong, but I have chosen to remain celibate until marriage. My only previous relationship ended several years ago, but it was very painful, and the intimacy of sexual emotion (which I can't separate from the physical side) brings back too many memories. I'm hoping whoever I marry someday will be patient enough to work through this with me, because I never want to endure that kind of pain again from anyone.

As for speaking on the subject, I don't mind, provided its kept respectful and not crude. I usually stick with the abstract though, since including too many specifics also brings back those intense emotions for me.

I hypersexual . I am shy and embarrassed about bringing up sex. have heard it described as cute sometimes. I wish women wouldn't bring sex up cause once it's up I get focused on it and then they get upset cause I talk to much about it. It might make them think all I want is sex, which it isn't.

Never bring up stuff like that, unless you really want to discuss it for an hour, eh? I suppose that is us in a heartbeat.

Personally, my sexuality used to be hypersexual. Not that it isn't now, but I took the time to harness the powerful electric energy that sex provides for something either creative or something near soul shaking. I use sex as something both spiritual and physical, almost like that essential, strong link between us and animals.

I see what you mean. Interaction like that is something that you can't fake. At least not the intensity of the act. That's why I love everything about it personally, including talking about it.

To me this would be rather uninteresting and hardly "sexual".
At best a "your kink is not my kink" type situation.

I tend to approach things like sex in a both open and a spiritual/new agey fashion these days. When I get that energy, I imagine becoming more than mortal. Like a tiger or a vampire of sorts. The energy and the passion is stronger when the response to my sexuality isn't as consistent as day after day.

Having plenty of confidence, even in the body and the soul helps a lot, too. Just imagine using that energy towards something great.