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serenaserenaserena
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14 Jan 2015, 10:54 pm

To make a long explanation short, I am a demiboy, and I'm genderfluid. Basically, I'm a boy who is feminine at times; I'm also androphilic, but don't worry, I know sexuality and gender are totally separate.

Anyway, my point is that since I'm in a female body, if I do anything feminine, people will act as if it makes me a girl, when really, I'm a demiboy. I want to present myself the way I am; a boy who is feminine for a guy and gay, but if I do that while remaining in my body, people won't take me seriously. What do I do?

Also, since my gender is fluid, mostly sexual attraction makes my gender shift a little to where I would NOT pass as any kind of male, which is very frustrating.


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14 Jan 2015, 11:01 pm

Just be you. That's all you really can do right now. The majority of the world isn't ready to accept anything that doesn't match what they see. So just be you, until the rest of the world catches up. And never be ashamed of who you are.