Im back. Regarding Lindsay. Need advice.

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Its me. You might remember me as "letsgoblues" Anyways there was a girl at my work I had and still have a HUGE crush on. See I asked her out over the break when she was down at work, and she said she would try and find some time, but kept giving me excuses even though she was signle. Anyways I still called her when she was back in school and talked to her sometimes and she would still say she would call me even though she never does. Well I started callin gher more cause i couldnt get ahold of her. Anyways one day I got a phone call from her new bf who is the QB for the football team abnd he said he was going to beat my ass for messing with his girl. I told him I didnt know she had a bf. She never told me she did. they have not been seeing each other that long her friend told me. Anyways Aftet that I still called her and one day she left me a voicemail admitting she had a bf now and she was sorry for leading me on all this time. So I called her again the other day just to talk and because I wanted her to give me a number for this other girl and she was snotty and said why was I still calling her. I asked her if shes going to be working at the same place this summer and she said "No, and Im not telling you where Im working this summer" I was blunt and asked her why she kept me hanging for months and because she said she felt sorry for me. her friend told me Lindsay told her dad about me and he was mad. ANyways I sent her a email today but to response. What should I do? How can I get her to like me? Shes the most pretiest girl I've ever met. She was always nice to me until I started liking her more.

hmmmmm...I could do some serious flaming here but i'll let the moderators deal with it

You aren't giving a full account of what's going on here but I can fill in the blanks. Basically she's a beautiful, popular, sparkling girl who attracts a lot of males and happens to have an approachable and very likeable character too. So you - like many guys do - wish to be her lover. Sadly life isn't fair and only one guy gets to be her lover and a girl who has that much to offer will usually want a guy who can be socially charming, show off and be confident. Unfortunately us males with AS can't be that, it is against our genetic code, so you simply have to accept that. Life isn't fair and most of us already know that. You're a late learner.

You're obsessed even after being rejected. *blah* Been there, got over that. No offense, but it sounds like she doesn't like you. She was being friendly about it, but you've taken it too far, and seem to have gotten too personal. Just leave it alone and try your best to forget about her. Dating QB, eh? Sounds like she is a very vain person. A lot of very attractive people have flaws like vanity. To help forget about her, focus on all of her bad traits, like vanity. After a month or so, you'll like somebody else. I figured this out in Middle School. Then again, I've always been considered more mature than people my age (16).

Yes she is cute. She didnt have a bf when I asked her out though. When she was back in school and I was talking over the phone she said "Im not your type, your the total opposite of me" So I asked her how and shes like "um I dunno, I like sports" Another lame excuse from her book. Here are a couple pics of her.

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She's clearly not interested. My advice: forget about her before she pepper sprays you and/or gets a restraining order against you.

Coolblues, why did you post this under Romantic Relationships when there's nothing romantic about that. That is a case of sexual frustration and should have been posted under Mature Asperger's related issues even though there's nothing mature about it. At least that way you are not putting this disturbing sociopathic behavior on display for the world to see!

dude, leave her alone. Don't go all out stalker on her, girls don't like that. She's not interested so move on.

Coolblues, please listen to what people here are saying. You asked for advice, and we are all giving you sensible advice to follow.

Even if you like this girl a lot, you have to let go. Things are only going to get worse if you don't leave her alone. By calling her all the time, you are only making her upset, and that makes her like you even less.

Trust me, I know how it feels. I really think I liked my best friend, but now he has a girlfriend. At first, I was very crushed, but I decided that it was pointless to keep thinking about it and saying "what if this?" or "what if that?" or "maybe someday he will like me back?" He likes his girlfriend, just like this girl you like likes her boyfriend. She already told you she's not interested in you, so leave her alone, and maybe you will find a girl who you like who likes you back.

let me reiterate my original advice HOPEFULLY THIS TIME YOU'LL LISTEN!

I think friendly advice is wasted on this geezer by the sounds of it.... Just give him the address of his local casualty and/or defence lawyer (depending on whichever he ends up needing first) and move on......

I'm looking forward to seeing what happens when hale_bopp finds this thread.....

GO AWAY!! !! !!

Don't bother giving the idiot advice, people.

Here's why:

http://www.musicmademe.com/asp/viewtopic.php?t=1351

Here we go around the loop again, they are catching onto it over at AI once again so he returns here. Same old nonsense and after about 10 threads and a few hundred pages, nothing changes... and then he hijacks into others threads with his obsessive stalking nonsense, could someone please see the light? He's trolling.

Mish is 100% right.

If you don't believe us your'e wasting your time.

I have locked this thread. Further discussion of this topic is not permitted. Any reference to this girl will be removed from the forums out of respect to her privacy. This type of post will not be tolerated. If anyone thinks I might be overreacting or being too harsh, please realize that this user was been banned from the site a few months ago by a unanimous vote from the moderators. We are allowing LGB to post here as long as he does not mention the girl. Private information has been removed from the posts.