why do people care if others they hate kill themselves?

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tell me how horrible I am , but then get upset that I want to kill myself. makes no sense.
I get that I'm trash and worthless so just let me die.

Hi sly, don't allow other people who have issues with their own self image to influence how you feel about yourself and to define your mood. You've got nothing to feel bad about: I've seen the images you've posted of yourself and you look fine. Someone special will come your way one day: possible when you least expect it. Forcing yourself into a relationship won't work.

If other people you don't even know make you feel bad, then you're allowing these strangers to define and damage your self image. Don't let them do that! I am fully aware how cyber bullying and similar stuff can make folk feel worthless but it's the bullies and trolls that are worthless.

Hope you feel better about yourself soon. I also had major self image issues when younger.

ate a bunch of high calorie cooks other day. whats the point. should just let myself go and pig out on everything. mean what's bad heart or diabetes if I'm just dead anyways. and why try to lose weight for women when I'll still be ugly and worthless to them no matter what I do.

its so expensive and hard to maintain hygiene and weight.

But an attitude of "I'm worthless" won't gain you any points. NT people will sense your low self esteem and reject you, therefore you need to build up your self esteem. Discuss with a health professional if need be.

And larger (rounder) guys do get girls, I see it all the time. Some girls are attracted to bigger guys. Especially if he has at least some confidence and tries at least to wear clean clothes without holes in, and look neat.

It's not as expensive and hard as you think. There are always ways to maintain hygiene and weight without spending a fortune.

If you can change your thinking just a little, I reckon you'll attract the girls you want.

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tell me how horrible I am , but then get upset that I want to kill myself. makes no sense.
I get that I'm trash and worthless so just let me die.

but its cause of the nt people that I feel this way. because they told me over and over and over that I'm worthless and won't ever find love.

so when i did have higher self esteem they saw me as worthless still.

I'm not even that big they act like I'm like those guys walking around who are like size 80 pants and can't get through a door. theres only so skinny you see bones or fat to these people wtf.

yes I know a few. but they were skinny when they met the girl then became fat.

I bought a bunch of new clothes. I know have like 10 shirts so I never have to wear the same shirt more then a day. I bought a load of shaving stuff so Im clean shaved now. I have shampoo and bodywash that cost 4 dollar each along with 4 deodorant. compared to I ust to buy super cheap soap, $2 deodorant, and these super cheap crap shampoo. though if up to me I'd just go weeks without showering. not like I ever see people. I'm on a calorie diet which feels like I'm starving myself. I've lost 23 pounds since september. when I do get dates. they say I come off as confident, I make them have fun and laugh. problem is one friend who secretly loved her came out when he saw she was dating. next one turned out to be lesbian(wasn't sure if she was or bi) next one wanted someone to provide for her and lied all the time. 3rd one I didn't think would work out, she had 9 year old kid and sadly I didn't find her attractive enough
4th was just after food its all she said and apparently doesn't like anything not tv, games, no hobbies at all.

problem isn't dates. I just can't get to the date stage where my fund playful, confident personality comes out. now I'm not super confident in general but when with people i get super happy and I guess that comes off as confident. I'm confident in games or guns though. things I have good experiences in. doesnt' matter though since I'm a jobless worthless man wont' even go on one date with. all the women friends I talked to always said I'm super sweet, cute, fun, funny and super romantic. but women won't ever see that cause they won't give me a chance.

thats the thing though being a aspie who craves and needs social interactions means I am at the mercy of others.
I'm jealous of those aspies who don't' need or want to interact with others, or want a relationship.

wanting and needing social interaction but being awful at it is the worse. and then being locked out of it cause you have a poor paying job just makes it badder.

Sadly one or two or three people being negative can suck one in pretty badly. Are you feeling any better yet?

Well if you've had four girlfriends already then you are certainly able to attract them and it's not your fault that the relationships didn't work out or that none of them were suitable for you. One that only wants food will certainly have a weight problem eventually, and you can't help it if one was lesbian and you didn't feel attracted to the other one.

Don't sweat it or make it seem like hard work! Sometimes the right relationship comes around almost out of the blue, rather than actively searching and stressing about it. I'm sure there are quite a few girls out there that do find you attractive. Maybe you just haven't noticed them or indeed met them yet!

There's nothing wrong with finding the right one even in your 30s. I'm not saying you have to wait that long but age is not a factor you should consider, or let people define you by.

You need to feel better about yourself before the situation can change.

Why don't you join a club or social group that shares your specific interests, so you can meet a girl or two that you have something to chat about, e.g. similar hobbies, taste in music, literature, games or whatever. It's always easier when you already have a mutual interest.

Would you consider a class in an interest? Doesn't have to be a traditional academic class they have all kinds.

Sometimes it can be depressing here but it can be positive too, can you stay away from any threads that upset you?

your body is a temple, it deserves to be treated as such. you are a child of the universe, so treat yourself like such. be good to yourself in spite of all the jerkazoids out there, JUST TO SPITE THEM.