What does success mean to you OP?
To have goodwill to others, to respect the planet, to do one's best to reduce rather than add to the terrible issues in our communities, countries, lives?
Or to have status, unlimited money, power of over others, or (Heaven forbid) Kardashian 'celebrity'?
It comes down to values, always. Just as my values shape my perception of who is a successful person, whether neurotypical or neurodifferent, so do yours. So what are your values?