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Danae
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09 Mar 2016, 1:52 pm

I like women.
I like men.
When we get good friends +
Some say it's called fluid sexuality. That would a first for me, something fluid about myself or in my life.
I've never been "in", maybe because of that. Or displayed nothing to people close or others.
It's no fear, no rant, no anger, and it's rare, and I see so others in pain, that I hear and feel.


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09 Mar 2016, 2:37 pm

My only fear, should I get involved with someone of "fluid" sexuality, is that this someone will all of a sudden change her mind, and fall in love with another woman instead of me.

I don't feel that alternative sexualities are morally wrong.



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09 Mar 2016, 3:02 pm

I can hear what you said, and although I don't see any logic in it.

You can be fluid and faithful, loyal and completely happy with one person.

Well that's how it is for me. One person. Then gender doesn't matter. A deep connection is beyond gender. But there has to be that deep connection. Rare.

Maybe it gives you another perspective.


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13 Mar 2016, 7:03 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
My only fear, should I get involved with someone of "fluid" sexuality, is that this someone will all of a sudden change her mind, and fall in love with another woman instead of me.

I don't feel that alternative sexualities are morally wrong.


How is that any different from getting involved with a woman of hetero sexuality that falls in love with another man instead of you?


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20 Mar 2016, 1:28 pm

I don't think labels are needed. If you don't want to identify yourself don't. Sometimes identifying something for other people are more helpful for an understanding. Who cares anywho! Just be yourself.