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xHomerOx
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31 Mar 2016, 6:09 pm

I would like that people in this forum explain to me, what motivates people to hating me? i didn't do anything to them, the girls laugh when they see me, and my companions mistreat me. I know that all that is different is excluded but i preffer to be excluded only, and not to be treated like that, horrible things happened in my life that i won't write here because i could take me all night and most of the problems that i had you had too. So i also know that neurodiversity is a term that is used only by people inside autistic spectrum, but it doesn't exist really, if it would exist people would get along with each other that is completely wrong in my case.
I expect you have some good answer for this because i went through horrible experience and i would like (if asperger cannot be cured) to live quiet. For example today three guys insulted me, and the girls behind was laughing, i was going to obliterate them but my boss appeared saving the situation. I will expect for reply! :)



kraftiekortie
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31 Mar 2016, 6:22 pm

Those people you speak of are idiots.

Most people in their 30's don't do high-school crap like these people do.



xHomerOx
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31 Mar 2016, 6:27 pm

The people i talked about is an example, most people do damage to me...



kraftiekortie
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31 Mar 2016, 6:31 pm

You have to find new people to hang out with.

Buenos Aires is a very cultural city, and the people there usually have class.

My feeling is that you have to broaden your horizons, and hang out with people who are into the arts.

These people seem like overgrown Beavis and Butthead types.



xHomerOx
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31 Mar 2016, 6:32 pm

I have to deal with them almost all day, they work in the area next to me... BTW I will send a Whatsapp to one of them to advise that if they keep bothering me i will blow his head.



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03 Apr 2016, 11:35 am

Do you have any talents in art or any samples of projects that could put into a portfolio? I have heard that whenever someone thinks your "Weird" or "Different," the best thing to to would be to show them projects that you have done.



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03 Apr 2016, 12:03 pm

When someone does this to me I generally grab my Rubik's Cube and solve it in under a minute (which I can do). It's hard for someone to insult you when you are doing something awesome. The problem with being an aspie is that in a social situation people mostly tend to just see the things that we are bad at because that stuff is the most apparent, and that makes us come off as not being very smart. If you let your skills show then you come off as a stereotypical genius who sucks at being social but is great at other stuff. It's probably not the best way to handle the situation, but it works pretty well for me.


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