Two unpleasant side effects of that are:
When a parent gets an AS or autism spectrum diagnosis for their child, they automatically seem to think that this is devastating, like cancer!! ! boo-hoo-hoo, poor them, poor child, will never be normal, needs lots of therapy up the yin-yang, etc etc. And any chance that the kid had of developing their own skills pretty much goes out the window with their self esteem....Ok, maybe that's an exaggeration!
And, if you *are* very high functioning and pass for an odd sort of normal, just very weird and bizarre (like I do) you could shove the diagnosis in their face: they won't believe you. You can walk, talk, have a job, are not incapacitated, etc etc. I find this extremely frustrating, for people to continually think I am some sick kind of a hypochondriac!! !
They need to show the FULL spectrum, it is not fair and gives no hope to show only low functioning or high functioing with many barriers.....
Why do they consistently paint this negative picture of us, yet show Down's children, for example, in a consistently positive light? We have more independence potential overall, no more congenital deformities than the average child, and a longer projected lifespan.
OK, I need to stop. I am beginning to rant....