When my brother died, my wife kept trying to kick me out from her and our 3 children, because I was no longer a joy to be with; she claimed that I had the mental illness of being clinically depressed; she didn't care where I went or what happened to me nor anything about whether my children need me as their father.
There is a world of difference between being clinically depressed & experiencing bereavement that cannot be understood by those who have no Love in their hearts.
Just like her sister [Lucy], she had had counselling as soon as they got jobs as teenagers. Her sister has never had a relationship longer than 5 years and at the first whiff of her partner being needy, she breaks up with them. My wife wanted children with me because I was the best paid IT freelancer at British Airways; she told me she couldn't get pregnant- quite a common ruse I've come to learn. My wife has been trying to get rid of me as soon as our youngest was born when I said I didn't want any more children because he had been born breech.. not because the birth was super stressful; it wasn't; it was text book but because my wife had given me instructions that if there was a choice between baby and her to let her live. Such a choice is horrendous of course but I would always side with the life that had the longest outlook; the child. I did not want to be in that position again. I lasted another 10 years before she threatened break-up after I refused her our children's inheritance from my mother by which time I had simply had enough of giving in to her endless greed & selfishness. The price was that she now does not let me see my children at all.
People on the spectrum are too trusting, too generous, too kind and too susceptible to serpent's poison; beware the pit of vipers and choose your partners slowly.
17 Jul 2016, 6:09 pm
