hurtloam wrote:
I appreciate that people on the Internet can't say , "I can see this is probably putting people off, don't do that," because you don't know me, but I have no one in real life who I can talk to about this.
I just get told, "you just haven't met the right person yet," "you don't need someone, other people manage on their own", "you're not the only one",
But that doesn't tell me why I keep getting rejected. It's the same pattern over and over.
I've kind of tried to help you out before, but you seem closed off. It isn't just you, but a lot of people on this forum. It's like people want to stay in their situation, they don't want to hear any new ways of trying things, they just want to keep repeating what they know, which is like that quote, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result". Maybe you don't see it. And yeh, we don't know how you really come across IRL.
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I've left WP.