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13 Dec 2016, 6:38 am
Sly, have you tried cougars or women like 10 years older than you? 
13 Dec 2016, 4:55 pm
sly279 wrote:
Most women are quite attractive, so if I match I'll read their profile to see if we'd work out.
When I first tried online dating I was a little more focused on looks. I would say that of all the matches I had, exactly zero I would consider attractive. There was also a number of profiles with multiple women pictured and the one who had the profile was usually the worst of them all.
That's not getting into their snooty profiles. How I wish I could go back in time and tell them THEY should consider themselves lucky to talk to ME and not the other way around! I wouldn't put too much stock into online dating: I had countless women send me a nice message, go on a successful 30 minute first date only to make excuse after excuse to avoid a second and most are still single to this day. What's bizarre is that they contacted me! ! I guess I only scored a 99% on those tests
13 Dec 2016, 6:42 pm
Peacesells wrote:
Sly, have you tried cougars or women like 10 years older than you?
They tend to be more picky
, divorced and have multiple kids who are in their teens ,so no.
I don't want kids atleast until 2 years of being together if ever.
Closest would been a lady I talked to on here who was nice.
Older women won't be able to provide the type of young relationship I need
13 Dec 2016, 6:44 pm
GiantHockeyFan wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Most women are quite attractive, so if I match I'll read their profile to see if we'd work out.
When I first tried online dating I was a little more focused on looks. I would say that of all the matches I had, exactly zero I would consider attractive. There was also a number of profiles with multiple women pictured and the one who had the profile was usually the worst of them all.
That's not getting into their snooty profiles. How I wish I could go back in time and tell them THEY should consider themselves lucky to talk to ME and not the other way around! I wouldn't put too much stock into online dating: I had countless women send me a nice message, go on a successful 30 minute first date only to make excuse after excuse to avoid a second and most are still single to this day. What's bizarre is that they contacted me! ! I guess I only scored a 99% on those tests
I'll get matched few times and they ignore me. I'll also get messages sometimes but their profile is very clear they don't want a loser like me.
I suspect they accidentally swipe yes on me
The others are spam bots trying to get me to give them my card number. Doesn't seem like any woman legitimately likes me or finds me attractive
14 Dec 2016, 3:40 am
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14 Dec 2016, 4:55 am
GiantHockeyFan wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Most women are quite attractive, so if I match I'll read their profile to see if we'd work out.
When I first tried online dating I was a little more focused on looks. I would say that of all the matches I had, exactly zero I would consider attractive. There was also a number of profiles with multiple women pictured and the one who had the profile was usually the worst of them all.
That's not getting into their snooty profiles. How I wish I could go back in time and tell them THEY should consider themselves lucky to talk to ME and not the other way around! I wouldn't put too much stock into online dating: I had countless women send me a nice message, go on a successful 30 minute first date only to make excuse after excuse to avoid a second and most are still single to this day. What's bizarre is that they contacted me! ! I guess I only scored a 99% on those tests
Since they have an infinite of options so they get stuck in a loop "the next guy will be probably better" - till they become corpses.
They get addicted to greed - if you have literally hundreds and maybe even thousands of guys contacting you so there's no way that no one is compatible enough.
14 Dec 2016, 9:37 pm
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16 Dec 2016, 8:43 am
sly279 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
sly279 wrote:
They tend to be more picky
, divorced and have multiple kids who are in their teens ,so no.
, divorced and have multiple kids who are in their teens ,so no.
Have you tried? One can always make clear that you don't want to be their daddy.
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Older women won't be able to provide the type of young relationship I need
What, a 38 years old is not good for you?
Their kids will always till priority(rightly so) that isn't the relationship I want. I want it t just be the two of us having fun and cuddling etc. with kids they be there all the time and go on trips with them etc. I want the priority to be the couple and relationship.
I dont know if I ever want kids anymore.
How would a little long term relationship with eventually marriage work with you not being their parent? Impossible eventually you're have to take on a sub(can make decisions) parental role. It's unavoidable.
Probably to no. I want a youthful teenager like relationship. Just about fun, romance and getting to know each other. People in their 30-40s have already had all that as teenagers and want a serious settledown, plan for retirement relationship. I see them on dating sites and Craigslist . They all have really great jobs own a house or two and multiple cars.
About the kids wilburforce here above is right.
About people in their 30-40s already having had that kind of relationship, you are wrong. Actually people in their teens already had that kind of relationship, and and that's why you called it a "youthful teenager like relationship".
Perhaps they see that you want that kind of relationship and they don't want it, as they are not teens anymore and they've been there already. If I can give an advice stop thinking about teenlike relationships, as you are not a teen anymore as well. That time is gone.
Also why do you complain about women having dealbreakers if you have them too?
Most the women in my area seem to have kids, I even see 18 old women who have 2-3 kids. That means they had to start having them by 16ish.
Well sorry as I never had that it's what I want. It's the type of love I'm able to offer. I never had it as a teen to then mature to maturation love. I'm playful and silly. It's who I am. I'm not ambitious or serious all the time.
Mine are not about how much money someone makes or where they live, it's about who they are and their personality. You know what makes you you. A job and money don't define people. Your not a mailman that's your job. His hobbies and interests are who he is, delivering mail is just how he makes money to eat. Seems a lot of women are more interested in dating job titles then the man who has the title,that's wrong. And it's not their fault western society defines people by their job, not who they are. It should be the other way around.
Wish I'd been born in the 1900-1920s
But thanks for you on par as usual depressing posts to me
In the 1900-1920 jobs were even more important when choosing a partner. That's if you were not sent of to war.
I get what you mean though why should you have to date cougars or people with kids? You have your own preferences and are allowed to stick to them.
People have kids at 18 in your area
