How can I stop liking someone I like?

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I like two people at the moment. One of them I've liked for a while.
And I want to stop liking them, because I haven't got the slightest chance with either of them.
Hiw can I do this?

Kill them?

that's horrible

They're too cute to kill.

Why don't you just win them over then?

Okay, so, to summarise, you are a lesbian, who likes two heterosexual girls. And there is no way you can remain just friends? I don't know what advice I can give you. However, do they know your orientation?

Hmm, dunno how I can help you. I'd say it's a matter of both willpower and finding someone else who may be able to reciprocate your feelings.

There are only 3 ways that I've found to stop liking someone:

1) Have no contact with them and it eventually fades away. Sometimes that's not possible though.

2) Start liking someone else. It's hard to make yourself do this though and you already like 2 people simultaneously so it might not apply to you.

3) Tell them how you feel. If they like you back, it's great. If they don't like you back, cold reality destroys the fantasy of you being together. It's the fantasy of being with them that usually drives unrequited love.

Like an imaginary friend or a robot.
I guess I'll just have to wait, and hope it goes away then. I won't see one of them now till August/September so maybe that will help.