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aspie17
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14 May 2007, 11:09 am

can aspies get girlfreinds?



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14 May 2007, 11:12 am

Yes, anyone can if they're nice to people and have a healthy outlook on things.


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14 May 2007, 11:13 am

Some can.



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14 May 2007, 11:32 am

I think everyone can get a girlfriend.
No matter how corny it is; there's a girl/boy for us all.



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14 May 2007, 11:34 am

AdrianB wrote:
I think everyone can get a girlfriend.
No matter how corny it is; there's a girl/boy for us all.

That's not necessarily true.



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14 May 2007, 11:34 am

AdrianB wrote:
I think everyone can get a girlfriend.
No matter how corny it is; there's a girl/boy for us all.
That is so true :)


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14 May 2007, 11:35 am

Absolutely. At 25, I have had many girlfriends, and have been with my current girl for 6 months.



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14 May 2007, 11:36 am

Vegasadelphia wrote:
Absolutely. At 25, I have had many girlfriends, and have been with my current girl for 6 months.

That doesn't mean we're all capable of it though.



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14 May 2007, 11:45 am

no, it's against the rules.



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14 May 2007, 11:53 am

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14 May 2007, 12:00 pm

Of course aspies can get girlfriends!

If you need some tips, you can ask us for advice. We'll be happy to help you. Sometimes when you feel that you're being rejected, it might be because of one or two small issues that can be easily corrected. Maybe you don't shower often enough or need a hair cut or should wear more fashionable clothes. Maybe you just need to smile at people more.

Is there a specific girl you're thinking of asking out?

If you give us some details, we can give you objective help.



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14 May 2007, 12:13 pm

Not all Aspies can definitely get a girlfriend. Not all NTs can either.



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14 May 2007, 12:35 pm

I would say yes to that. And, likewise, aspie women can get boyfriends. I have been with mine for a little over three years but for now I don't know what will come of it.



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14 May 2007, 12:37 pm

Can Aspie men get boyfriends?
Can Aspie women get girlfriends?
Can Aspies who are neither male or female get anyone at all?



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14 May 2007, 12:38 pm

I just want someone-I'm so lonely sometimes :(



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14 May 2007, 12:39 pm

Kilroy wrote:
I just want someone-I'm so lonely sometimes :(

I'm sure you will find someone.
I only want one of two people and I will never have either of them so nevermind. :)