Can aspies get boyfriends?

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14 May 2007, 9:33 pm

Am I the only female here that finds it very difficult to get a boyfriend and to be happy in a relationship?

Men and women are different. Men are often attracted to a wider range of people, so I wouldn't be surprised if one comes in here with some sceptical comment.

It's verry difficult not even being attracted to anyone. And its worse when you find someone you are attracted to, because most of the time they will not like us back because of what we are.

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14 May 2007, 9:39 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Aspie women can definitely get boyfriends. It depends on the individual.

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14 May 2007, 9:50 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Aspie women can definitely get boyfriends. It depends on the individual.

Tim

I didn't want a derect answer from the question. It was merley a catchy title for what I had to say on the matter.. I know aspie girls can get boyfriends.. I was directing this at the ones that can't.

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14 May 2007, 9:52 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Aspie women can definitely get boyfriends. It depends on the individual.

Tim

Oh. Sorry about that.

Tim

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14 May 2007, 9:53 pm

I can't get a real one.

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14 May 2007, 9:56 pm

I can't even get an internet one.

The only person on the net that i'm interested in doesn't give a sh*t.

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14 May 2007, 10:04 pm

I don't think it's easier for either gender, really. But it's definately possible for both.

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14 May 2007, 10:04 pm

I tend to f**k up internet ones as well. I get pissed off too easily, and fight with them.

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14 May 2007, 10:07 pm

Hmm.

I'm a guy, so I guess the asnwer to this is, is its all dependant on the individual.

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14 May 2007, 11:18 pm

I've had a fair share of boyfriends, but most of the them, at least recently, have turned out to be complete jerks. And that's the understatement of the century. Given my track record for finding creeps, I'm not even going to try the internet.

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14 May 2007, 11:25 pm

nothing at all is better than getting used.

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14 May 2007, 11:35 pm

I have had plenty of men make passes at me, but being a straight male probably doesn't help in your case too much.

Although if it helps any, I've been single for a very long time too.

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14 May 2007, 11:42 pm

shadexiii wrote:

nothing at all is better than getting used.

Too right.

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