Had you have your first kiss yet?

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I am 19 and I haven't had it (of course that is mostly due to me never thinking about having a girlfriend until 18) but I still feel like s**t when I think about it because its not normal

what about you? and if you had it then how was it? how old were you?

I don't believe in having a girlfriend until I'm 18 as well. I know this is awkward to say, but 7. She was my best friend and...the worst part, my mother saw it.

17.... It was nothing special really. She had horrible smokers breath.

19 is still actually pretty young. If you were 29 and still never been kissed, I would understand why you're feeling like this, but 19 is still young and there is still time.

Here in England, teen relationships is no big deal, meaning if a person in their teens/early 20s has never had a relationship or been kissed yet, it's not really a big deal. In fact it's quite normal.

Don't feel bad. I am your age, and I haven't kissed anyone or been kissed. I think from the one girlfriend I had, I learned that I like hugs and just plain physical contact. Also I used to hug this guy I had a crush on frequently, and thoroughly enjoyed it. <3

You sure? I'd say not having sex before you're at least 16 seems to be a strange thing in the UK these days.

18

Don't feel too weird; most of my friends had there first kiss in the 12-15 age group. I barely had mine before I turned 17 to my first girlfriend.

I haven't had mine either.

I am 19 as well and I have never really had a girlfriend either.
I am never sure what people mean my kissing.

During 2nd grade I sort of had a girlfriend; a girl asked me if I wanted to marry her and I said yes and according to the teacher we were in a relationship and we had to kiss each other in front of the whole class
But that was only a thing for the 10 minutes that it happened, I don't really think that it counts as a relationship.
And I have kissed girls on the lips but mostly during spin the bottle etc during elementary school house parties organized by the class but other than that I have never had a girlfriend or first kiss with the tongue wrestling either.

It would be great to have a girlfriend sometime but I have never felt like it's necessary. I have had crushes on girls a few times and I told some of them and they friendzoned me lol but the last time that I really had feelings for a girl was three years ago.

Don't worry about having a relationship, there's no rule that you must have a relationship with someone and there is not an age limit for being single either.
Your love story is still being written

Well obviously there are some teenagers who are having sex whilst still at school, but most adults refer to them as ''out of control teens'', unless they are in a serious and approved relationship, which most aren't. When I was at school, only the most popular girls had boyfriends, whilst probably most kids in my class hadn't even had sex or a first kiss. So I didn't feel that left out. I was into boys and often had sexual thoughts and fantasies, but I wasn't that ready for an actual relationship. I wasn't even ready at 19. I think by about 22 I started to feel ready for love and sex. Now I'm in a relationship and can seem to handle it more maturely than some of my peers!

Lust is a sin

I'm 25 and I've made out with three women and had sex with two.

No. Kissing actually repulses me due to my OCD. I don't want other peoples' spit in my mouth even if it is someone I love.

It sounds strange, but I have never been kissed, either. I am self-conscious about how my breath might smell and disgusted by other people's bad breath. I would be very uncomfortable being kissed. I can't even stand actors kissing in movies. It looks as though they're giving each other tonsillectomies.

I'm 42 and I haven't had my first kiss. I don't really care, either. I'm not in any hurry.