What makes you attractive to others?

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So there has been a focus on what makes us unatractive to others but everyone has something attractive to others also. Don't be shy or feel like your being big-headed in sharing (something I worry about).

Please share what makes you attractive!

Here's mine to get the ball rolling

- pretty face
- big eyes
- intelligence
- quirkiness
- humour
- honesty

Hand on heart there is no sure thing as someone without any attractive qualities.

Open Mindedness
Passion/Enthusiasm
Able to talk deeply about certain issues
Not too bad looking I suppose
Probably the appearance of being intelligent

As for me: my willing and ready charm, intelligence, and chattiness (about science fiction subgenres, where I live and where I live). This is mostly in nightclubs I visit with my friend.
The girls I talk to have told me how nice I am. I dance with them. Have not persuaded them if I could a girl a drink.

Quick wit and zany sense of humour.
High fitness and health.
No baggage and fiercely independent.
Career success and more income than I need.
A ton of general knowledge from my desire to devour information constantly.
Consideration and compassion and honesty.
Reliability and faithfulness and always being true to myself.

(It's been eight years since I achieved any romantic event with a woman so it's hard to think on the bright side but still, great thread!)

1. Intelligence
2. Sense of humour (distant second)

Definitely not money or looks at the moment.
It's personality.

sense of humor
loyalty

Things that make me attractive within a romantic relationship to the rite person like my current girlfriend
I'm logical
I love being affectionate
I try my best to be emotionally supportive & I like people with issues/problems/disabilities/emotional baggage.
I completely adore her.

I have been told I have a great laugh and a great smile. I've been told by my aunt over the years I'm "very handsome" like her husband.

I like to make jokes (they sometimes fail, I admit)
I like to laugh/smile a lot
I'm quite affectionate (cuddly, kissey)
I'm very intimate
I can have good conversation
I'm a good listener
I'm also a good pillow to lay on.

- I'm incredibly attractive
- I'm gay as hell (no, I'm seriously a lesbian lol)
- I make people feel like the most important person in the world when I focus on them
- I'm fashionable
- I'm f*****g funny
- Good personality
- I'm intelligent

I'm
a good listener
honest and loyal
wicked sense of humour
caring, I don't like to hurt anyone
curvy lol like Nigella Lawson or Kim Kardashian (edit just googled KK, I'm a lot thinner)
Intelligent and can hold a conversation
I am very passionate about music, will go to all the gigs you want to go to (but not Coldplay)
I like visiting historical places and going out in the countryside

Wait this is starting to look like a dating profile 0_0

For some odd reason, my sarcastic sense of humor. It happened again this last weekend - I was acting like my same old cheery self and my co-workers couldn't stop laughing at everything I said to the point it was annoying. I just say what comes to my mind and patients love it too. I probably should have been a stand up comedian instead of a professional butt-wiper. Go figure.

Depression speaking but I never been able to do these things, list whatever positive traits about yourself. I just don't have the self esteem or confidence, how can you list what makes you attractive to others if you don't feel attractive to others? I don't get a lot of positive feedback or any feedback, I guess it's true that if you don't like yourself then how can you expect anybody else to? I've always found that kind of a calloused retort as if it's choice. I get smart and kind I guess but I don't feel all that smart or that kind.

you're so boastful guys....

My sassy humor
My big boobs & backside
My libido
My giggle is apparently attractive. (I don't think so, but I've heard it repeatedly)
Pretty eyes