I Can't Stop Fiddling with Fabric Corners

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03 May 2017, 6:52 pm

You know, where fabric comes to a corner, like on your bed or something.

I literally can't stop fiddling around with them and it's actually driving me nuts!

I push the point of the corner in, I pull it back out again, and so on, and on and on.......

I must do this for hours every day. Aaaaarrrrggghhhh!! !!



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04 May 2017, 1:32 am

I'm crazy about edges of things (I looove touching the edges of knives, sharp edges are the best), including fabrics & clothes, furniture, playing cards... I like sitting on the edges (arms) of sofas, windowsills, worktops in the kitchen...
I don't do it for hours though, that seems like a bit of a problem if it interferes with your life too much.



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04 May 2017, 2:45 am

I fiddle with the edges of my shirts a lot. It's just something I do when my hands aren't preoccupied, often when I'm in my own head or if I'm talking to someone.


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04 May 2017, 6:53 pm

Well, it's something different for each of us, but it all boils down to the same thing.

And it's super-difficult to stop, for me.

I'm even at it now!



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04 May 2017, 6:59 pm

MirrorWars wrote:
You know, where fabric comes to a corner, like on your bed or something.

I literally can't stop fiddling around with them and it's actually driving me nuts!

I push the point of the corner in, I pull it back out again, and so on, and on and on.......

I must do this for hours every day. Aaaaarrrrggghhhh!! ! !


Don't you get any satisfaction at all from fiddling with them?


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05 May 2017, 12:24 am

I need to fiddle with something, more often than not doodling or whatnot. I have a compulsion to pull my clothes and I've been doing it for years. I also like wrapping myself in blankets incorrectly.


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05 May 2017, 2:58 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
MirrorWars wrote:
You know, where fabric comes to a corner, like on your bed or something.

I literally can't stop fiddling around with them and it's actually driving me nuts!

I push the point of the corner in, I pull it back out again, and so on, and on and on.......

I must do this for hours every day. Aaaaarrrrggghhhh!! ! !


Don't you get any satisfaction at all from fiddling with them?


Sort of, I can't seem to resist doing it, but I 'd rather that I didn't do it as it drives me mad!



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29 Apr 2023, 4:49 am

I’ve done this my whole life. I fiddle with the pointy corners of my work collars to the point that the fabric wears out.

I cut the collars off work shirts when they need to be discarded so that I fiddle with the edges and points anywhere.

It doesn’t need to be the pointy edge as you can fold crispy edges of sheets etc to make a point :heart:



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29 Apr 2023, 11:14 am

I would always fold over the edge of certain blankets and flick the corner of the fold between my fingers.


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29 Apr 2023, 11:39 am

I used to fiddle with the edges of book pages, they were all curled and rolled. But now we don't have books, we have Kindles and tablets so that stopped me :lol:


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29 Apr 2023, 11:41 am

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I used to fiddle with the edges of book pages, they were all curled and rolled. But now we don't have books, we have Kindles and tablets so that stopped me :lol:


They got corners, don't they? :lol:


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29 Apr 2023, 11:50 am

funeralxempire wrote:
KitLily wrote:
I used to fiddle with the edges of book pages, they were all curled and rolled. But now we don't have books, we have Kindles and tablets so that stopped me :lol:


They got corners, don't they? :lol:


How can I roll the corner of a kindle or a tablet? I'd have to be the Hulk. And despite rumours, my temper is not as bad as his :lol:


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29 Apr 2023, 12:20 pm

I have similar compulsions.


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29 Apr 2023, 12:44 pm

I fiddle with book pages when I'm reading.

But a lot of times I don't notice till I have been doing it for a while. I got in trouble with a teacher one time because they thought I was just flipping through the pages and not reading during assigned reading time. But yeah it's like I have to do it, if I focus on not doing it then I can't concentrate on reading.


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29 Apr 2023, 2:24 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
I fiddle with book pages when I'm reading.

But a lot of times I don't notice till I have been doing it for a while. I got in trouble with a teacher one time because they thought I was just flipping through the pages and not reading during assigned reading time. But yeah it's like I have to do it, if I focus on not doing it then I can't concentrate on reading.


The same, I got told off by a teacher too for doing that! :lol:


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29 Apr 2023, 7:34 pm

Here's a compulsion for you:

A problem I frequently ran into as a teen with my special interest (Collie dogs), I'd find myself staring at a picture of a collie and being unable to look away to the point my eyes hurt.

Any thoughts on that?


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