Anyone else get angry with people really easily?

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I keep getting angry at people on here all the time when they criticise me or disagree with me. It really aggrivates me, I can't stand it. And even though I know I should ignore them or respond more maturely, I don't, I just call them a stupid c**t or tell them to f**k off. Which doesn't do help. Although it does make me feel better. But I know I shouldn't though. By the way, I'm not referring to anyone in particular, I was thinking of a few separate examples, it's just become more of a problem lately. I think it's because I never talk to people IRL. So I get frustrated and then use the internet to deal with it. It's annoying me now though. Even people I've never spoken to before are getting to me now just by saying one thing or disagreeing with what I say. Until recently I'd been better at forgiving things like this and moving on, but now if I see the username of anyone who's made me angry, that just makes me worse. I feel really bad and I wish I was back at university instead of sitting around at home all day. I'm sick of being on my own all the time with nothing to do.
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I dunno.
I don't want advice btw. There's nothing anyone can say to fix it because I know what I should do. I just need to find a way to do it.
Nevermind.
It's making me feel ill.

Yeah I do...I wish to kill and eat everyone; whether they agree with me or not. Though, I'm sure I'd find more pleasure in eating someone whom disagreed with me. I just don't bother communicating my anger..., I don't see the point; when someone finally angers me enough I'll be gnawing on them, not wasting words.

*Daniel wonders if anyone will talk to him ever again after seeing this*

(Intrusive thoughts are a beautiful thing....)

E: Subjectively, I'd presume that everyone would be quick to anger internally; it's how you exhibit it to the world is where we differ....

better to let it out in some form or another than to keep it bottled up

I'm not really an angry person. I'm quite sensitive so I tend to get upset or anxious for DAYS.

The only time I get angry is at things that I can't reason with - so like technology not working for no apparent reason for example. (Although I must say that it is not easy to reason with NTs at times - they are so illogical!)

I also get angry at injustice - so I try to channel my anger into positive things like campaigning etc.

But generally I'm not an angry person. I only ever get REALLY angry once every 2 years or so - and even then it takes something pretty huge to get me that angry.

I get more irritated or 'mildly annoyed' if anything, which is a lot less intense and more easily controllable than anger.

I hope you feel better soon.

Yes... I have anger issues.
I lash out with those closest to me if they criticise me or do something that is unexpected.
Verbally, I can be very vicious but only happens in relationships usually.
I wish I were one of these more mellow, take life as it comes kinds, I really do.
Would enjoy life much more then.
Anger wastes so much energy and destroys relationships and friendships.

no i just quietly judge people

I used to be angered easily back in my early adolescence. I would have anger outbursts every few days. Over the years, it slowly died down. Now I only have anger outbursts when I'm really angry. As for this website, if I'm angry with someone, I try to handle it in a mature manner. However, I have yet to really be bashed. I just hope I never do. The last thing I want happening is for me to make enemies on this website. Usually when someone bashes me, though, I would have a sense of guilt, as if I was the wrongdoer.

i used to get angry on daily bases, i never knew anybody so easily angry (besides my father) as i used to be. once i got such huge outburst of temper that i started destroying a closet in my room in middle of the process i stopped and became shocked that i am doing such thing and then started to laugh on how stupid i was. i realized that if i get angry or not, it doesn't change the situation, because of which i got angry, at all. i realized that there is no point in being angry and from that point on i become angry only if it is good for something.

hey soph, i hope i didn't make you angry before. i am here only short time, i shouldn't. i would feel guilty.

Last edited by tomamil on 23 May 2007, 9:43 am, edited 1 time in total.

Thanks. No, I don't think you've made me angry on here, tomamil.

Yes, I am constantly angry with the people I love. I get angry too easily, but then I get over it quickly when I get distracted by my interests.
Last night I got all upset over something really stupid which ended up hurting my friend.

yep a lot
and I can snap at the drop of a hat

Unwarranted personal attacks and malice get me.

In my case that happened when i was sure i was right and i wanted people to accept what i said like my word was the law. Now i have come to realice that even if i'm sure, i still may be wrong, so i pay more attention to what people are saying insted of getting angry at them.

We aspies are very close minded, and that's not good.

I suppose we should define anger; in my case, I have insidious thoughts of aggression against everyone, and aggression is innovated by anger correct? It’s misdirected on my part, and the amount of “anger” I feel within is never justified for actions that the majority purvey; this is a product of my “intrusive thoughts” and my frustration with society that I tried to join whilst I was growing up.

It’s irrational when directed at those who don’t deserve it (this is thoughts remember…) but it’s still there like any other compulsion I experience. Luckily, the part of me that interacts with the environment is quite rational; I truly dread ever causing harm to people..., a fear that is so great that it drove me to the hospital.

I guess we all have our own version of "anger"; mine probably deviates from the norm, but that's nothing new.

well yes i would like to kill some people and do some serious violence to others, but i don't get angry about it.

I wouldn't say that I become angry easily, but I do get annoyed and aggravated with people very easily. Actually, to me, annoyance/aggravation is worse since it takes me a long time to get over. Anger is quick come quick go for me.

Yes, we are. And yet there is always talk about how open minded we are. I suppose, in some ways, we are more understanding, but we're no more open minded than the rest.