Not wanting to get close to him?

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Jamesy
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30 Jul 2017, 1:59 pm

My friend who also has aspergers told me his girlfriend (she hasn't got aspergers herself) she makes many jokes with him, great conversations and they have great laughs together. However he told me she never really cuddles him and she has never mentioned anything about sex to him yet.

Do you think that's very weird? They have been dating for 1-2 years



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31 Jul 2017, 10:35 am

I can't say 100% as I'm not part of the relationship. But even if she was being careful & trying to protect herself from getting hurt I think she'd want to cuddle someone & even mention sex before 1-2 years of dating. I see it more as a friendship then girlfriend/boyfriend type of relationship.



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31 Jul 2017, 12:17 pm

For a normal heterosexual relationship that's pretty weird. But I don't know anything about these people so I can't say what their relationship is. Why are you even asking about somebody else's relationship on here anyway?



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31 Jul 2017, 12:29 pm

What's her culture?



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31 Jul 2017, 12:48 pm

Sounds like they're just friends.

If I and a girl haven't kissed , cuddled or hugging in after 2 months I'd end it.