i’m so alone.

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in the past year i have stopped feeling like myself all together and everyone i love has turned away from me because i’ve not been my best self and i really feel like i’ve really done it this time and i won’t have that again. and now i’m crying on a hospital floor because my friends dropped me off here to get a prescription filled and before they did that i found out they all went out without me the other night and purposefully left me out. and i didn’t expect anything else but it hurts so bad

There's a guy right above you feeling lonely.

Maybe you can talk to him. Keep him from doing damage to himself.

His name is Fifasy. He could use some words from you.

If you'd like, you're more than welcome to PM and just vent me! However I'm not too good at giving advice I'm afraid

You've reached adulthood and its not easy being an adult. Maybe thats why you've been feeling so blah. You should try talking to a therapist about this. As for your friends leaving you behind, I'm sorry that happened. Yes that would hurt. You could try telling them that you're sorry you just havent been yourself lately and that you're doing everything you can to change that.

Is it possible that they went out without you because they thought you were feeling down and that you wouldn't enjoy yourself?

Your friends cared enough about you to take you to the hospital. If they were really heartless, they wouldn't have had anything to do with you.

You could always get new friends.

I posted this in another thread but will re-post it here:

There are several ways you could meet people.

1) If you are religious, go to church. Many churches offer social activities as well as ministries through which you could volunteer your services.

2) Look for a volunteer group to join. Animal shelters, parks and recreation, food banks, soup kitchens, hospitals, and senior care centers are always looking for volunteers. Not only could you help your community but you'd have the opportunity to meet with other volunteers.

3) Check out meetup.com. Meet up is a social platform that promotes group gatherings for various interests. I've seen all sorts of groups promoted through Meet up ... gaming groups, exercise and fitness, dining out etc. If you can't find a group you like, you could also start your own group.

4) If you're working, why not chat with colleagues? Invite some of them to go out after work.

5) Take a class at a community college.

6) Join a fitness center.

7) Become a political activist and join a local group in support of electing a politician you like.

The important thing to remember is that you don't have to be alone. I know how tempting it can be to feel sorry for yourself but if you're not happy with this situation, then dry your tears, take your medication, and use today as an opportunity to find a new friend.

Best wishes,

David