ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
Dear_one wrote:
In general, easy jobs won't cover rent, phone, and food - they are too easy to fill. Assess your aspie strengths, and see what job needs them. I usually had to be my own boss.
While I agree with the sentiment about easy jobs not paying the bills, you don't really give any constructive advice. What do you mean when you say "be my own boss"? What does "usually" mean? Were you or were you not self-employed? Or were you 'your own boss' in some other form or fashion? I don't want to pry, but how does one be their own boss? What worked for you? And why do you say
usually? Did you go through multiple self-employed businesses? Did you work for someone else, but managed to 'be your own boss' somehow?
What are you getting at exactly?
I sometimes worked for wages or salary, but never lasted two years with that arrangement. I mostly used jobs as a way to get some valuable experience - one paycheck in my hand, and one in my head was my plan, until my head got overstocked. I worked independently as a handyman, specializing in extra-odd jobs. I knew a couple from Oz who were not allowed to work in Canada, but did just fine buying, fixing up, and selling a succession of vans to live in. Others go to "moving out" garage sales, and make a big profit at their own garage sale later, especially if they do a bit of cleaning, painting, or other repair. I did some artistic metalwork, which I still do as a hobby, but it didn't pay as a manufacturing gig. I even had a limited company of my own for a while doing high-tech stuff, before I realized that it wasn't as Green as I'd hoped. However, the advice about "do what you love and the money will follow" is rather capricious. One does not always find a like-minded patron. My main talent involves structural efficiency, which has the potential for making a lot of people change jobs, so I never got hired for that. All my heroes advised getting a business-oriented partner, and mine was a dud.
The other side of learning to earn money is learning to not need much. There are people who say they have never eaten as well as they do as dumpster divers with a kitchen. Sometimes, I'd rent a whole house, and then sublet the rooms and live in the basement or garage with a workshop very cheaply. I used a bicycle instead of owning a car for decades. I get my furniture and appliances nearly free, just needing a bit of repair.
I can't give you any specific ideas on how to proceed - be like water, and go where you find a way, and like an ant, always feeling around for something sweet.