Was this rude of her too say to me?

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I was at the bar recently and this lady who I just met for the first time wanted me too look after her bag for a few mins and then she randomly blurted out too me “you seem untrustworthy”

Do you think that was outrageously rude of her too make that remark towards me?

While it seems like a rude thing to randomly blurt out to someone you just met, it also seems odd/unwise to leave an important or valuable possession like a handbag in the care of stranger. Lol.

If I were you, I wouldn't want to be responsible for a stranger's bag. SHE could be the untrustworthy one and accuse you of stealing or something!

She was probably just thinking out loud and realized that leaving her stuff with a stranger wasn't a good idea. I wouldn't take it personally... I also wouldn't say "you seem untrustworthy" nor would I leave my stuff with a stranger!

If she had been drinking, what she said was more normal than rude.

I find her a pretty ungrateful person, actually.

I think it was said in the spirit of "being defensive." If she really thought Jamesy was untrustworthy, she wouldn't have allowed him to watch the bag.

It's "bar-type" crap......the crap I stay away from in my life.