Real Affection or Special Interest

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MatchooW
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18 Feb 2019, 7:49 pm

If two autistic people have a romantic interest in one another, how can you tell if it's genuine romantic feelings or a special interest infatuation? From either, or both sides.



nick007
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18 Feb 2019, 10:25 pm

I'm an Aspie in a realtionship with another Aspie & my 2nd girlfriend was also an Aspie. I think if the other is like your special interest & you have strong romantic feelings, that it is real romantic attraction. Real romantic feelings can seem like a combination of a special interests & feeling a strong infatuation.


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