soulmate?

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I have one so to speak and he can be a bit of a jackass at times. Soul mates aren't necessarily existing in a romantic sense though we did try dating. Mine was chromatix. I base this on the fact our handwriting is nearly identical. I noticed about 3 points of difference and we were both startled to find our handwriting was so alike people may not know the difference though we do. We also had some similarities of our childhoods this is despite our age gap and differences in location(he was in the UK and is now in Finland and I'm in Canada).

We have this weird bond where we can't totally ever be separated from each other. We do love each other in our own way but I wouldn't say at this point it is romantic love.

I believe in possibility of multiple soul mates. I don't know if I'll quite run into another or if this is the only one I have. neither he nor I can explain our bond, handwriting, or overlaps of like things in our histories. We are similar enough that friends we have that have been around both of us off line said he's the male version of me or me the female one of him. There are some distinct differences in our personality and stuff as well but we do have things that stand out as alike enough for people to make those comments.

Of COURSE it's made up. Like all other
things which we use to distinguish ourselves
from other animals. Honor, respect, truth,
these are all just ideas which people use
to form their model of the world.

But, it's not merely the 'chemicals' of attraction.
It's a conscious decision. One which touches your
very spirit (another one of those "made up" things).

i think you can have more than one soulmate.

Identical twins are often very close to each other, and you can't get much more similar than that.

I think that it's good to share certain things in common (goals, values, humor). You want someone who you'll be able to agree with about big picture issues, who you can share some activities with, who you can trust, and who has traits you find appealing.

That said, yeah... you don't really want a clone. Whatever you do poorly, you'll now be a dyad of people doing poorly.