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I had to stop venturing out on this one online chat site because too many guys were "interested" in me. I'd actually met someone in person once, but he didn't even really like ME in the end, he just liked how i looked or maybe he liked how scandalous it seemed to be with someone from the internet. Either way, I have had enough. I do not know how to get guys to not fall in love with me. That sounds really pretentious....at first. But what I mean is, I don't know how to communicate to guys that we should just be friends because that's all I'm looking for! I'm not ever looking for romantic relationships that are long distance. I don't do that. I know it works for some, but not me. I like my short black velvet skirt! it brings me comfort! i know it's also sexy, but like....i have a mind, TOO YOU KNOW?!?!?! Like, jesus christ. I am not going to say I hate guys. Because I love guys! You guys are awesome! But NT guys....um....leave me alone! you're not in my realm, romantically, but we can be friends because I don't want to be a b***h! AHHHHH

i probably should have posted this in the relationships forum. BUT the reason I didn't is I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm just looking for platonic relationships. Am i cursed?

The only way an online relationship would work for me is if I never had to meet the dude. Basically would be like a pretend virtual boyfriend which I could totally get down with :p

I am starting to think of him as a pest, and I feel like an ass just because he rambles on and on about himself and the voices in his heads, and he has told me that he has been diagnosed with schizophrenia as well. He tries to make our relationship real, when it's not, and it bothers me because then when I stop texting him, he's going to be thinking, "what's wrong with me? why doesn't she like me?" and i don't want to hurt anyone. But at the same time, I can't handle that! I told him about something really traumatic happened to me, and he was like, "Yeah, that's happened to me before..." And before I know it, my issue is under the rug, and we're both focusing on him. I think he's a narcissist like my ex....and I'm the autistic one!?!? Sorry, but I'm tired of attracting lunatics. Why can't I find a nice, lovely OCD schizotypal like me....?