How do I tell if Someone doesn't Like Me?

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I'm not the best at reading faces or micro expressions.

See how they respond to you, relative to the way they respond to their friends

That's hard, I find I'm not the best at judging if someone likes me or not either. I usually rely on working out what a person is feeling by asking questions, but people, especially NTs won't give you an honest answer if ask them "do you like/hate me? So I'm left with guessing.

generally, if they treat you differently, or act differently around you compared to other people they know - or strangers - that's a rather clear sign.

most people would have a clear reason. if they think you're creepy or threatening they may go out of their way to not be in your presence. if they think you're cheap and stingy with money or have scammed them, they will hesitate to give you any

but i suck at this myself.

this is why prefer face to face, cause of upbringing am always on edge with new people or even not so old , cause it is so difficult for me to read this important thing , rely on intuiton alot . cause most of older experiences are scarey to recall. I just watch for little things , if they carry themselves in a awkward way, compared to others around me , i make a mental note .. Think there is a process called NLP that can be learned neural linguistic programming .. think it is a real thing. But been just watching people carefully practice listening for intonation in sentences , And like to think i watch peoples eyes at the same time . But i know , i do not like to look at eyes . Except with siblings . which are all past on now. Watching how they interact with others ,Criminal type NTs know how to manipulate these things , it has been my experience . If you feel unease , with someone . Would say , do NOT hesitate to be on guard . And avoid financial transactions or even personal ones with these sort. If someone you do not know well , and they try to appear overly sincere , Might step back and re-asess , your situation even take a second to ask extra questions victimizers do not like to answer questions . There was a reason grandpa said " be safe than sorry"

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