Neighbour HATES our dog

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We have a dog who had a hard life before she was adopted by us so she always gets a bit freaked out and barked. And right now, we're only allowed to walk her once a day.

My neighbour was always rude about the dog but she's being especially rude now. She said there was something wrong with our dog That dogs shouldn't bark that much. I've never known a dog not take two walks a day, of course it's hard for her.

I'm feeling defensive cos even though I don't like dogs and I really don't like barky dogs, that dog is one thing that gives mum pleasure. Mum isn't allowed to eat with us or sleep in the same bed as my stepdad or go out at all or hug us. It's really hard for her. Because if she gets this virus she'll die, third time in her life she might die. It's not about me liking the dog, it's about me loving mum.

How do we shut the neighbour up so she stops moaning at the dog? I don't want her upsetting mum. And how do we shut the dog up so the dog stops being annoying?

I am so sorry and I can't even to begin your mom's frustration of not sleeping with your stepdad. Anyway, it sounds like learning to be assertive with the neighbor and being as gentle as possible.

Examples

1. Just because you aren't fond of our dog does not give you the right to push us around
2. When you talk to us like that, it makes us feel uncomfortable. This is a very stressful time for all of us and we all need relief. For my mom, it's the dog. Were you aware that my mom has a medical condition? Just start talking to her in a gentle answer possible.

Did you also explain to her that your dog is a rescue and developed some habits in the last place?