sinsboldly wrote:
humm... I don't suppose you know how many jobs I have been fired from, how many times security has walked me out the door in mid meltdown, how I have painfully, despairingly picked myself up again and tried and tried and tried.
forgive me if I share my experience, and hope. I have found that only self control of my "Aspie traits" will allow me to sustain continuous employment, and my co workers can make hundreds of mistakes and I only need to make one, and poof. . I am gone.
I realize that NTs have sympathetic nerves and when someone with our intense concentrated emotional outbursts go off, NTs just wig out and have to get rid of the 'cause' of their uncomfortableness. But I also know that it is not ONE ISOLATED INCIDENT that gets us fired.
I am not saying it isn't an Aspie trait. I am saying that Aspie traits like this aren't acceptable in the workplace and they are not going to change their ways for a statistically minute section of the population.
As much as I sympathise with MoelKing, I am also practical in the ways of the world. Sorry if I don't come off as 'supportive' of Aspie traits. I am 'supportive' of how to keep from being fired.
Merle
I picked up the pattern early and decided 'why bother'? I mean, what's the point of remaining in the rat race if it causes so much suffering? After a few meltdowns and the like, I said 'screw it, life's too short' and went on SSDI. I still freelance, but I work from home. It pays little, but SSDI isn't going to fire/drop me for not fitting into the majick mold. That's a big chunk of anxiety that is no longer eating at my life span. I don't understand why more of us don't apply for SSDI and reclaim some quality of life.
Unless you have to support someone, then I guess it's a problem....