Gentleman Argentum wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
You can send the mantids my way, they're some of my favorites (though I like most arthropods just fine). Spiders are accepted as guests, as long as they stay off me and don't build their webs in places where I'm likely to end up with spider silk on me because I unknowingly run into them in some way. I don't know whether any are on the autism spectrum or not, but I do know arthropods were my very first special interest.
I too tolerate spiders, also these
centipedes. They kill other insects so they're ok.
I kill on sight roaches though, and leave bait traps, ants same. They are just pests.
I think probably most insects and animals are Aspy or full-on autistic. It may be why we relate better to animals. I never met a dog or cat that didn't like me.
I get quite startled when I see a house centipede, but I also let them be, for the same reason (and that at this point, there are so many spiders/spiderwebs in the basement that it seems kind of pointless to try to send them all outside). As long as they stay out of sight, I don't mind knowing they're there, but something about the angle of house centipede legs freaks me out a bit.
Every little critter that is not a spider or a centipede gets captured and released outside. I have a lidded plastic cup for things like the wasps and stinkbugs that sometimes get in around one of the windows, anything that would be a bad idea to try to catch with my hands. I just can't bring myself to kill them, I feel like they have just as much of a right to live as we do. I accept killing that is necessary (such as a predator killing prey), but don't think it's necessary to kill every insect that comes indoors. If there's just one or a few ants (which are the only insects we have issues with being pests), I'll take them outside, but I semi-accept that if there are more, my mom buys and sets ant traps. Not sure what I'd do if I had a pest problem in my own place, whether I'd eventually resort to deadly traps or not.
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Yet in my new wildness and freedom I almost welcome the bitterness of alienage. For although nepenthe has calmed me, I know always that I am an outsider; a stranger in this century and among those who are still men.
-H. P. Lovecraft, "The Outsider"