Women: NO! Pedophiles: YES!

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I was abused sexually many times by many people growing up. I was raped in my home and in my elementary school.

I find it funny how none of the pedophiles who preyed upon me ever said to me "I like you, but as a friend", "You're really sweet, but there's just no chemistry", or any of the of the other clichés I've been told by every woman I've ever had feelings for.

If only pedophiles could have found me as repulsing and unattractive then as women do now!

But when I think about it, it makes perfect sense. We all know that women are attracted to strong men, while predators target the weak. Right?

I'm so sorry that happened to you. And I think you're right about the strong and weak thing.

I’m not a particularly strong man...and I’m very short.....but I’ve done okay.

Don’t succumb to a black and white sort of philosophy.

I would say your history may be affecting your perception of the world.
I wouldn't necessarily say that woman are attracted to strong men.
I would say that this world has many different types of woman and men,
each with their own likes / dislikes, but also circumstances.

In one circumstances where you may find life hard to find a partner, you may find
is completely different to a different circumstance.

I would say that a great deal of success as to whether you become successful with finding
a partner, is to do with communication or lack of ability to communicate.

Problems with Communication is a well known feature to ASD.
Some of our problems are verbal, other problems are lack of ability to read people.

That, and material success. Having a good income, a decent home, a decent car etc.
All contributes to making a person more attractive to woman.

Although there are exceptions to this rule.

You don’t....but you’ll just have to trust me

I'm so sorry for what you've gone through. How you survived it is testament to who you are.

For the record, I don't think women know what they want until they realise it wasn't what they wanted.

Personally, I've never had much time for alphas. Quiet, shy men are far more attractive to me on every level.

I hope your healing is swift and complete, and you find the future you've been dreaming of.

That was a really sh*tty thing those predators did to you. You didn't deserve that.

I think whilst younger women tend to be attracted to strong alpha male types. After dating a few selfish jerks they are see the appeal of a loyal, gentle and sensitive guy who will treat them better. At least that was my experience. Women started finding me attractive in my 30's because I was a nice guy, not because I was strong.