Jackal wrote:
Hi, I'm a new member, and my cousin has autism...anyways, I'm trying to teach him to ride a bike...been trying for close to a year now. The thing is, he won't try to balance or anything. Has anybody had any similar experiences, maybe some tips?
My husband is an Aspie and he had a terrible time learning to ride a bike. He ran into fences and curbs and was eventually found unconscious in the middle of the street after a bad fall! He said learninghow to balance on the bike was the hardest part.
But for some reason he just wouldn't give up and eventually became a professional mountain biker! He primarily excells at uphill riding, though, and to this day has a hard time with the descents. He says he just doesn't have the coordination to go downhill at high speeds.
He says that bike riding clears his head and relieves his anxiety. He also says that the physical pain he endures on a bike is nothing compared to the daily mental hardship of being an Aspie in an NT world.
Plus, cycling has become one of his fixations and he can talk for hours about particular cyclists and their various racing victories and defeats. He also enjoys building and repairing bicycles.
Perhaps your cousin could become interested in bicycles as machines (they are the most efficient man made machine, you know) and some of the trivia related to cycling, then trying to actually ride a bike may become more appealing.
And for some inspiration, here's a famous Aspie riding a bike: (I know, I know, it hasn't necessarily been proven that Al was an Aspie, but the sake of argument, let's just assume he was.)