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Wesker
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25 Jul 2007, 6:10 pm

I was wondering if anybody else with AS has problems like me with Stammering when they talk? I don't stutter but I stammer. I will be telling somebody something and I will be stopping between words and it sounds really stupied. I am trying to break myself of the habit. Do any of you have that problem? It is like my thoughts are moving too fast and I can't keep up. I didn't used to have that problem but for the past few years I have been doing it.

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25 Jul 2007, 7:28 pm

Yeah, I stammer. I have stuttered too, but stammering is far more common.



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25 Jul 2007, 7:32 pm

I stammer a lot. Lately it seems that it's because I'm saying something, then my brain tells me that it's stupid and dumps the whole thought process.


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25 Jul 2007, 7:38 pm

I am a stammerer... no real help for you. The problem is the brain isn't thinking about what is being said. In my case it is usually a few sentences ahead when I haven't really thought about the words i'll be using.

Best remedy I have found is just speaking slower. Smooth Speech it's called. I got it out of a speech therapy book. Basically use relaxation techniques to calm your mind, and concentrate on talking slower. I imagine since you are a stammerer you aren't an AS who has difficulty with pitch, cadence, and intonation, so that should work...

It isn't always possible of course, but with practice it does get easier, and you do get better.

Beyond that advice, however, all I have is to say... yeah, me too. Hope you get better.



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25 Jul 2007, 8:09 pm

I only do it when I am very excited or anxious.


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25 Jul 2007, 10:48 pm

I only stammer when my nervousness reached its peak



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26 Jul 2007, 7:43 am

Izaak wrote:
I am a stammerer... no real help for you. The problem is the brain isn't thinking about what is being said. In my case it is usually a few sentences ahead when I haven't really thought about the words i'll be using.

Best remedy I have found is just speaking slower. Smooth Speech it's called. I got it out of a speech therapy book. Basically use relaxation techniques to calm your mind, and concentrate on talking slower. I imagine since you are a stammerer you aren't an AS who has difficulty with pitch, cadence, and intonation, so that should work...

It isn't always possible of course, but with practice it does get easier, and you do get better.

Beyond that advice, however, all I have is to say... yeah, me too. Hope you get better.


Good for you. Stuttering can be extremely resistant to treatment, even with years of therapy. It's so fantastic that you were able to do it on your own. It's always nice to hear about stories of people who were able to overcome their stuttering (or at least improve it).



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26 Jul 2007, 4:22 pm

I used to stammer, but now I simply "freeze up" or "shut down".
There was another thread about this topic.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... ic&t=39498



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26 Jul 2007, 4:33 pm

Ive made it a habit to speak slowly and carefully to prevent stammering and doing too much "backing up" and starting over during conversations.. but I still use a lot of "filler" like "umm" and the like.

When i get excited and try to keep up with my thoughts though I end up rambling on incoherently tripping over words and stopping suddenly when I hit a wall and cant think of the words.


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26 Jul 2007, 6:38 pm

I stammer, stutter, slurr, put words together, mixed words up, talk too fast sometimes, done it all. I sometimes also mispronounce my words sometimes like the word wrong might come out as whong or warm might come out as wam.



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26 Jul 2007, 7:22 pm

Roseduelist wrote:
I only stammer when my nervousness reached its peak


Same here.



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26 Jul 2007, 8:17 pm

Roseduelist wrote:
I only stammer when my nervousness reached its peak


I do that when I'm nervous before I've reached my peak, lol.

Generally I only mess up when I talk fast or when I'm excited/nervous. My mom would always mention to me that I would never talk because I thought about what I was going to say before I said it, but I was mainly just trying to work things out before hand so i wouldn't mess up.


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26 Jul 2007, 11:30 pm

Age1600 wrote:
I stammer, stutter, slurr, put words together, mixed words up, talk too fast sometimes, done it all. I sometimes also mispronounce my words sometimes like the word wrong might come out as whong or warm might come out as wam.


For me, "world" always seems to come out as "wold"- totally embarrassing! Especially when I say "World War", for some reason. Interesting, it looks like when it happens to either of us, it is the "r"s that aren't pronounced. Huh. I guess the American "r" is a fairly difficult sound, and it is certainly one of the last sounds acquired during English language development. It is also extremely rare in the world's languages. So when we're having some pronunciation difficulties, it is the one that gets chucked.



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26 Jul 2007, 11:36 pm

i stammer when nervous.

i couldn't pronounce r's until the third grade or so. i was told i sounded like someone from new york.



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26 Jul 2007, 11:40 pm

Wesker wrote:
I was wondering if anybody else with AS has problems like me with Stammering when they talk? I don't stutter but I stammer. I will be telling somebody something and I will be stopping between words and it sounds really stupied. I am trying to break myself of the habit. Do any of you have that problem? It is like my thoughts are moving too fast and I can't keep up. I didn't used to have that problem but for the past few years I have been doing it.

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Not all the time, but sometimes. I don't know why this happens.



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26 Jul 2007, 11:57 pm

I stammer and mumble when I'm asked to respond on a topic where I lack confidence or otherwise don't have enough information to put together a good response. The stammering is a result, I think, of jumbling together thoughts from not having enough background in a topic to guide a clear thought train. The mumbling I think is a way to try to mitigate the resulting embarrassment. For this reason, written speech has always been easier for me, as there is the possibility to revise and reconsider. In situations where it's important that I try to avoid stammering (mostly work-related), I try to remember to take a few moments to collect my thoughts before opening my mouth.