Best life hacks for dealing with life?

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What are your best life hacks for dealing with life?

Writing things down in my phone so I don't forget.

-a calendar with important events and plans.

- as soon as I run out of a grocery, I add it on a grocery list in my online instacart. Each week, I just click buy and schedule a pickup or delivery date and time.


Also:
Having a place for everything, and always putting it back.

And-
Keeping a fairly set schedule for chores so things always get done.

Automating what I can: bills and such.

These things save me so much time and energy so I can focus on more fun and interesting things.

^Ditto, esp. Writing down everything on my phone.

I even write down the day i washed my hair so that i don't forget

Using a real-life RPG app. I've tried a few, currently using Habitica, and it makes a big difference.

Yeah I have to write everything down. Helps a lot.

That is a good idea to automate anything that can be.

I wear simple clothes and rotate them so laundry isn't ever too bad. Also solves the what to wear that isn't going to drive me nuts problem.

Yes! Very smart Lady Strange!

Makes me laugh, I forgot about the clothes thing! Probably needed to write it down haha

I will make a bunch of outfits ahead of time and hang them in my closet so during my work week I won't be so stressed getting ready.

1) Also writing things down.

(1) Keep organized records. I forget stuff so it is useful to have records. A lot of my records are on my computer (with thumb-drive backups, including backups in my safe deposit box) but I'm old so I also have a lot of old paper records. (Scanning the old paper records is a pleasant, repetitive task, by the way.)

(2) Write things down. Yes, but I'm old. I usually carry a pen and a pocket-size paper notepad. Before notepads that size were readily available I used to buy packs of blank index cards to make notes for myself. From my old records I can see I started doing this in the 1970s--long before pocket-size computers.

(3) Leave visual reminders. If I need to do something I'll make myself a note and leave it on my dresser or desk...seeing that note nags me to do the task until I do. Sometimes the reminder is more tangible, a tool or some other object, that is set where I will see it when I perform related tasks. And, for instance, I'm old so I keep my morning pills at a specific spot on my dresser...when I take them I move them to a different spot...I can tell by seeing where the pill bottles are whether or not I took the pills (which is important because I can take the pills and by the time I've walked across the room I'm sometimes not sure whether or not I took the pills!).

(4) Be organized. A place for everything and everything in its place. And if that "thing" is a recurring activity then its place is a specific time...have and follow routines. And the calendar on my computer (previously the paper calendar on my desk) keeps track of when I should do things and when I did them.

Own few things that have many functions.
If you are young, plan on getting as much value in education as in money from a job, until you can always find work.
Help other people when you can, but don't do what they should do themselves.
Never forget that these are extremely chaotic times, with multiple crises coming to a head. Don't make them worse, and expect to spend your life dodging disasters.
Know your limits, and if they are a problem, work on improving them.
Ignore advertising, except as warnings that you will be paying a lot for them, not the product if you do buy.
Where large sums of money are involved, assume that the information will be heavily polluted with self-interest, against the public good.
Entertainment should be for when the chores are all done, not a way of life. If you have no chores, entertain yourself with puzzles that may improve the common good, that you are particularly suited for solving.
If you have any aptitude, keep some tools around and learn to fix things. This helps you save money on both goods and rent. It can make you some friends and get you income, too.
You probably need plenty of sleep, healthy food, lots of good water, exercise, clean air, sunshine, nature, and low noise pollution to function well. Don't let them slip. Some would add laughter and tears, among other essentials for happiness.
Do the math.
Avoid Facebook and similar sucker traps.
Vote.
Choose your battles wisely - people have a huge variety of limits and blocks that usually prevail.

2&11 are the best because they are the ones most often not focused on.
1.Back up keys.
2.Knowing everyone else's schedule and constantly updating mine to meet them part ways at least when needed. Absolute best if you are a parent.
3.Pen, memo pad, wallet combo with a lanyard to prevent losing it.
4.Labeled clothes drawers.
5.Buy it for life mentality towards commonly used items boots, shoes, pants, belts, wallets, pens, furniture.
6.If I can't find exactly what I want I will make it or modify it. Especially shoestring lengths.
7.Researching quality in materials and processes items are made of so I don't spend hours researching replacement after something breaks. Back ups if the item is not known for holding up if there is no alternative.
8.Organized fridge and cupboards.
9.Organize your daily child care items if you are a parent.
10.Saving and spending strategies.
11.Knowing the top dependable car brands/makes and common cars to prevent break downs and break down time (available parts on hand are more common for common cars).

If your friend is in a crisis and has a lot to deal with, offering to help is often an empty gesture. Instead, find a chore, and volunteer to do that. Bring a meal, help with cleaning, research their options and list them clearly, loan them things they need, help deal with people, etc.

Overall:
Decide what your roles are, what they mean, keep a running list of things to do in those areas and plot them weekly on your calender.

EX) Girlfriend - love my partner be his best friend this week: Date night, make sure you ask about how work is going, and how he is feeling about his big move
Student - meet w/ advisor, study two hours each day,
Homemaker - Launry, get sea salt, drop of cards at post office

I make the list, and then I plot thing on the calender for the week, including day/time. I have 11 roles and do stuff for each of them everyweek and place those on my planner first followed by any new commitments etc.

I also go over bills every Sunday, add my chores on schedule, and plan my week then too as well.

Career/job: Pick one that has job opportunity everywhere, pick one that you can tolerate, when you choose a lifestyle make sure said job/career is something that can ensure you can live at your basic standard easily.

I am sure there are loads of others, but I am thinking about these two primarily right now.

I set "reminders" by making alarms on my phone and titling them based on what I'm reminding myself of. Or calendar reminders.

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