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Intelligent people (particularly males) actually want to have sex, but are simply less likely or unable to obtain willing partners because they are disproportionately viewed as unattractive or undesirable as partners
I learned this long time ago, much to my disappointment. After all, I'm smart (book-smart, at least). Not to mention, I have a butt-ugly face. But if most girls don't want a guy like me, so be it. I resolved my situation with these two methods.
Method 1
I lower my standards as much as I can handle. As long as she's visibly female (i.e. doesn't look like a guy), and has all the body parts in place, I'm willing to give her a chance, and even have a long-term relationship with her (as well as the physical stuff). As someone with bad looks and low pick-up skills, I have no right to insist on dating good-looking girls, no matter how much I'd like to. Lowering my standards worked great for me: I got to make out, have free sex (see below), and even experience an actual relationship.
Method 2
I see an escort whenever I feel an "itch" coming on. It all feels very rational and normal, and not one bit shameful. After all, this is the only way I can get a good-looking girl to come near me, and it's a fun change of scenery from who I normally date. Also, I get to fulfill my fantasy about being with a hot girl. (Please note that I
never see an escort while I'm in a relationship.) I think this is why prostitution (or "escorting", as I prefer) is the world's oldest profession: there were always unattractive guys who wanted sex.