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04 Jun 2022, 8:25 am

I know that people with autism think differently but im confused on how neurotypicals think. All the articles i can find written for neurotypicals and assume you already know how they think.



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04 Jun 2022, 11:19 am

I can picture how they might think but I can't explain it in words.


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04 Jun 2022, 12:11 pm

UltraViolet240422 wrote:
I know that people with autism think differently but im confused on how neurotypicals think. All the articles i can find written for neurotypicals and assume you already know how they think.


Just keep reading those books, and imagine the reverse of whatever they say about autistics. Like once I flipped through a book written by a lady shrink for women ( I believe it was by Dr. Joyce Brothers, years ago) to explain how men think, and got some knowledge of the opposite- how women think differently than me.



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04 Jun 2022, 1:57 pm

i dont know and i care even less


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04 Jun 2022, 2:46 pm

Caz72 wrote:
i dont know and i care even less

Bit rude.



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04 Jun 2022, 2:47 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
UltraViolet240422 wrote:
I know that people with autism think differently but im confused on how neurotypicals think. All the articles i can find written for neurotypicals and assume you already know how they think.


Just keep reading those books, and imagine the reverse of whatever they say about autistics. Like once I flipped through a book written by a lady shrink for women ( I believe it was by Dr. Joyce Brothers, years ago) to explain how men think, and got some knowledge of the opposite- how women think differently than me.


K thanks



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04 Jun 2022, 3:12 pm

Read this tweet earlier today. Think it applies

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The autistic urge to communicate using very specific, highly detailed wording.

The NT urge to communicate using a mysterious mix of indirect and vague wording, eye contact, body language, facial expressions, social cues, shared context, & assumptions based on social hierarchies.



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04 Jun 2022, 3:54 pm

UltraViolet240422 wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
i dont know and i care even less

Bit rude.


Sorry I miss read ur bio and thought u were a neurotypical saying that. I take it back ur perfectly reasonable to say that :)



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04 Jun 2022, 4:02 pm

hurtloam wrote:
Read this tweet earlier today. Think it applies

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The autistic urge to communicate using very specific, highly detailed wording.

The NT urge to communicate using a mysterious mix of indirect and vague wording, eye contact, body language, facial expressions, social cues, shared context, & assumptions based on social hierarchies.



Callum Stephen


And don't forget emotions going several directions and which may or may not be accurately and logically connected to life happenings.


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04 Jun 2022, 4:12 pm

I would say that there are large variations in the way, many people with ASD and Aspies think.

I will answer this from the viewpoint of how do I (an Aspie) think over the majority of NTs.

Most people (NTs) are very limited in the scope and detail in their thinking. But on the other hand some Aspies like myself think across many different areas. They explore an extremely wide range of issues. An unlike most NTs my learning did not stop around the end of high school but continued on every day trying to figure out the mysteries of life. I am 73 years old and have suffered a massive stroke, but my brain still is growing and growing.


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04 Jun 2022, 4:24 pm

NTs are usually judging someone if they don't quite meet their expected standards, even if they're other NTs. NTs are happy and comfortable when around familiar behaviours and thinking and appearance. Anyone outside their realm of normal standards could make them uncomfortable, and they express it by laughing, staring or whispering. Sometimes having somebody else's differences explained clearly to them often helps them feel less uncomfortable but not always.


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04 Jun 2022, 4:27 pm

UltraViolet240422 wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
i dont know and i care even less

Bit rude.


they dont care about my feelings or thoughts so why should i care about them


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04 Jun 2022, 4:28 pm

NTs are not a different species. There’s a lot of variation, as there is among members on this site.



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04 Jun 2022, 4:35 pm

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NTs are not a different species. There’s a lot of variation, as there is among members on this site.


Very true.


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04 Jun 2022, 5:46 pm

Caz72 wrote:
UltraViolet240422 wrote:
Caz72 wrote:
i dont know and i care even less

Bit rude.


they dont care about my feelings or thoughts so why should i care about them


Because life aint far. THEY are the majority, and have all of the power. So you have to learn how they think so you can survive even though they do not have to do the same for you. In other words to survive autistics have to learn how to be good house n****rs!



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04 Jun 2022, 5:49 pm

It depends on the NT.