People who think that they necessarily will on rule based linear condition make friends if the following are includes: Common interests (either atypical,rare, or not) and based on shared events, such as having an enemy or a bully victim in common (Though not too common for an Asperger to be typical of dominance and bullying) and then in the end the feeling of embarrassment and being confronted by violating the dynamic and non linear, not necessarily predictable constraints of what governs the social rules, and many unwritten codes that are too long to verbally decode in which what may fall under the umbrella term "Neurotypical" which to me sounds like an absurd, an individual is an individual, brain differences aren't all that varied, given we all share many characteristics identically in common. Demonstratively what i commonly misinterpreted and or falsely understood as rule based conditioning and linear reasoning: "We go to a gym , a couple kids from different classrooms attending a gym outside the school place in which one of them was bullying the other, and i sort of was trying to rear my ugly head and act rejective towards the victim in an attempt to feel shielded from the bully attempting to bully me as well, and then during a gym i tried to vulgarly confront the 'victim' where he was attempting to search for something or where to put his towel on gym bench and then i awkwardly started to say "Are you !^@# blind and can't see damn s**t " and the priority bully burst out in laughter and then after i went back to my classroom when the gym schedule was over, the bully followed me to the classroom standing near me, not touching or doing anything, expect glancing at one of his friends "*laughter* have you heard him try to harass him? it was funny as hell" I moreover slowly started to grasp that the world is dynamic, unpredictable, and not statistically measurable and when it clicked to me, I started to feel like my inner self blossoms with overly increasing awareness and acceptance and I can see objectively that I have a varied difference in amount of friends, versus 10 years ago. Leave a comment and tell me what you think and if you've got to share something similar or even subtly different then please, do so, i'd be glad to hear! Kudos!
28 Apr 2023, 5:15 pm
