I May Quit WP

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I was soooo hurt & crying when nobody replied to my last post, at least one very good person replied, my friend, maybe my only friend here. Im thinking of quitting. Nobody care about me anymore.

We do care about you. Sometimes it's not that busy and people don't always notice posts that others write, especially if it's in Random Discussion.

I agree with Twilight.

Also, if you reply to other people's posts and show that you care about them, people will write more to you in return.

The same goes with saying "thank you" to people who do reply to you, or responding to the advice they've given you.

I just took my sleep med stuff and decided to check back in here before I go to sleep for the night. Glad I did.

I didn't see your last post. I've missed a lot here over the last month or so...I've been on a break from this place. Now that I'm back, I know there's a lot I didn't get to reading and replying to. Honestly, I'm a little overwhelmed by it all and probably not getting to things I would have otherwise replied to. I say all that to say it doesn't mean a lack of care on my end, it just means I didn't see it.

For what it's worth, I generally can relate to a lot of the things you write, and I'd not only notice your absence but miss you as well. It's not often in my life that people say things that I can relate to, and I really appreciate it when it does happen. I for one hope you decide to stay.

I find this site very hard to follow, I can't always see which posts have been replied to and when, and many get lost in the ocean of posts. I often don't get replied to either, I think it's just the luck of the draw whether people see posts or not, unfortunately.

Still, it is better than Twitter/X and the others where you're more likely to get a reply from trolls or bots, which are horrible.

Please stay Kitty. I like reading your posts and they make me realise how lucky I am to not have the amount of crap you have to put up with in life.

Also Kitty, (>>>much hugz, btw,<<<)

There are also people here similar to myself whom post a frenzy of posts in a matter of days to weeks, then spend a lot of time off the Forum doing other Life stuff, and might not even see when a heartfelt post was first sent.

Please charge it to the head, and not to the heart; You're just as important as anyone else here, and quite valued as the individual that you are.

I'm sorry that you've been going through hard times. Please believe that there's an end to every trial.
Love you.

Sometimes people get caught up in their own problems in RL and don’t notice .
Sorry.I hope you feel better and stay.

I hope you stay too, Kitty.

Please stay.

I know it can be difficult when something you've written that you put a lot of thought and feeling into didn't seem to "land"
Try to keep in mind that not everyone who reads something compelling can necessarily come up with anything to write in response, at least not right away.

Darron

I like your posts. But I'm very off and on with most of the sites I use, including this one. Or I may just not have anything to say in response. Don't think about it too hard.... I know that's easy to say, but yeah.

Please stay Kitty.

I don't know if I saw your last post or not, but I usually read them when I see them.

I know that for some of them that I don't reply to at all it's because you haven't asked for any input, advice, help, or any type of support or response so when I read a post like that I figure that there's nothing I can really add of value to it and that the main reason you posted it was just to vent w/o comment.. and you did that, so, kind of thread over before they start a conversation.

If you WANT people to respond with something, maybe phrase things in a way that indicates that so people don't just assume you felt like venting and that's the end of that thread. If you want responses to something, ask for peoples' input, comments, advice, support, ideas etc and you're WAY more likely to get people responding to threads instead of just reading them and assuming you just needed to vent your frustrations about something.

IMO.

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Hey Kitty, I hope you've been doing okay this week.