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orotunddaedal
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10 Sep 2023, 7:47 am

I started hanging out with a group of local people at bars and parties and some people didnt like my presence in the groups (i used to hang out with some people from the group back in the day but i faded from the group when i was dating women) they started messing me with by for instance going around telling everyone how im a bad person cause im not vaccinated. i then got a vax card so they had no excuse for not having me around so they started using more drastic methods to try to make me go away such as telling people that i can slip drugs in drinks. they also began either making things up or heavily exaggerating things i did to try to get me banned from places that we mutually frequent. one of the girls in that group worked at a local bar and whenever i came in she would find excuses to cut me off after 1 or 2 beers. how do you perceive this situation? have u encountered something similar before?



KitLily
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10 Sep 2023, 9:47 am

I have but not so extreme. I've just become aware that people don't like me sometimes in a group so I've moved off and found another group who do like me.

That sounds like something you should do. Why do you hang around with people who do such nasty things to you? Can you find some nicer friends?


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10 Sep 2023, 11:04 am

I agree with KitLily.

You should look for other friends if these so called friends are treating you badly like this.