bee33 wrote:
Your attitude toward your neighbors sounds very childish and immature, and also not very nice at all. Maybe she was making a valid point when she was suggesting that you might not be ready for marriage, and she was trying to use Spongebob as an example you might relate to, of someone who is able to live well without being married (yet).
You are right but how would she know what my true readiness level is for marriage?
Only I can determine that, correct?
I don't even think Anita is aware that SpongeBob (the character) is Autistic
Here is what she actually said regarding SpongeBob SquarePants:
"Sara. You are wonderful and YOU are great, and liked and loved just the way you are! SpongeBob is not married, but he has others who CARE about him Just like you, me, Phil, Mason, Jack, Debbie, Glen and Maureen we all love and care about you."Then she said she was NOT comparing me to a fictional character and if I relate to him I should be content with just having friends in place of a romantic relationship!! !
It is obvious that she has no real confidence in me succeeding with my goal
_________________
"You have never experienced true love but that doesn't mean you won't EVER find it!" -SpongeBob SquarePants
Last edited by Mikurotoro92 on 20 Oct 2024, 8:10 am, edited 2 times in total.